|Oh, my. I'm sorry you have such a low opinion of African american boys. I really wish there were some way to end this "black boys want to rape our white daughters" crap, but that would require people to stop being racist, which apparently is impossible.
I have been biting my tongue, this is what I was thinking but said in a much nicer way. I mean, what should one do if EVEN WORSE, their daughter likes the school and ends up with a black boyfriend. The horrors! My sadness and anger cannot be put into words. Well they could but I believe it would be a MAJOR UA violation.
Nikki-DD was in a class last year that was almost all white. One child was "black" and no matter what DD was assumed and classified as "white" (again we are quite a mix but technically she would be latina on Dad's side and white on my side, except DH is very dark brown skin and assumed black). So when talking about MLK and desegregation to the 3rd grade, white teacher says all kids kept looking at black kid. Teacher, thinking she is helping and trying to take pressure off the little boy says "We
would not have (insert black childs name here) or (insert DD name here) in our class if not for MLK."
: Let's disect:
We=us white people are "allowing" non white people in OUR school.
Boy=different than US.
DD=this is where it gets fishy. She was unsure of DD ethnicity/race but had seen DH. She called out DD who then had kids ARGUING about her race. Kids who had not thought much of race prior. They told her and the teacher DD is white. It got very uncomfortable for DD, to say the least!
I broke this down to the teacher, who truly was just a clueless privileged white woman. She had good intentions but was so off base! I explained what she did, wording, etc. I hope she truly learned from my breakdown of how bad she screwed up!