I'm so glad you asked that question! I'm 38 and live in Hampshire, UK, recently engaged. I just joined yesterday and I'm not a mum either, probably never will be. I did wonder if I'd be welcome at MDC, but joined because I found a thread that interested me about relationship issues. No one has replied to my posts yet, but I'm hoping I'll make contact with folks I have stuff in common with. Even for mums, there must be life outside mothering, eh? Welcome to ya.