This is all very upsetting to me....
My ds is deathly allergic to milk and eggs (when he was about 10 months old my friends 2 year old spilled some cows milk on his hand and he blistered where it had made contact with his skin) Another toddler once fed him a cheese goldfish cracker and his eyes swelled shut....
He self-weaned himself at about 14 months and his eczema and other allergy symptoms have actually improved as I guess I wasn't doing as great a job as I thought at eliminating EVERYTHING from my diet

: Aside from veggies, beans, and meat (which we have actually started eating again because I feel so short on options) SOY is the only thing he does well with...He drinks soy milk and I use it to prepare pancakes, muffins, and oatmeal for him so the idea that there are now problems with soy has actually almost brought me to tears
Breathe - I know it is so frustrating to have your child experience all these food related problems that we thought bfing would protect them from (after everything we have heard about it - it feels like a rip-off to learn that bfing isn't a guarantee) Not to mention that nailing down food allergies is so difficult in preverbal kids. Anyway, if you ever want to chat feel free to email me and we can chat and share recipes.
Thanks for the information ladies,
BJ
Barney & Ben