This is really important, Mamas. I gave birth to dd1 at 32 weeks and barely made it to 37 weeks with dd2. Make sure that you have these signs memorized and don't hesitate to call and/or go in for any reason. Even if something just doesn't feel right, but you don't have a specific symptom that you can identify. Trust your intuition. Don't let anyone bully or shame you into "not being a bother."
But, if you do end up giving birth prematurely, please remember that it is NOT YOUR FAULT. We can try to reduce the risk of preterm labor and birth, but sometimes there really is nothing that we can do. These mysteries of birth, life and death are just that...mysteries...
This is from the March of Dimes
What Is Preterm Labor?
Preterm or premature labor happens when you go into labor before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy. This is too early for your baby to be born. Babies born too soon can have lifelong or life-threatening health problems.
Can Preterm Labor Be Stopped?
Many women are given drugs to try to delay or stop preterm labor. In some cases, birth can be delayed long enough to transport Mom to a hospital with a neonatal intensive care unit (NICU). Women may also be given medications that can improve the baby's health, even if the baby comes early.
Warning Signs
Here are the warning signs:
* Contractions (your abdomen tightens like a fist) every 10 minutes or more often
* Change in vaginal discharge (leaking fluid or bleeding from your vagina)
* Pelvic pressure—the feeling that your baby is pushing down
* Low, dull backache
* Cramps that feel like your period
* Abdominal cramps with or without diarrhea
What Should I Do If I Think I'm Having Preterm Labor?
Call your health care provider (nurse, doctor or midwife) or go to the hospital right away if you think you're having preterm labor, or if you have any of the warning signs. Call even if you have only one sign.
Your health care provider may tell you to:
* Come into the office or go to the hospital for a checkup.
* Stop what you're doing. Rest on your left side for one hour.
* Drink 2-3 glasses of water or juice (not coffee or soda).
If the symptoms get worse or do not go away after one hour, call your provider again or go to the hospital. If the symptoms get better, relax for the rest of the day.
But, if you do end up giving birth prematurely, please remember that it is NOT YOUR FAULT. We can try to reduce the risk of preterm labor and birth, but sometimes there really is nothing that we can do. These mysteries of birth, life and death are just that...mysteries...

This is from the March of Dimes
What Is Preterm Labor?
Preterm or premature labor happens when you go into labor before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy. This is too early for your baby to be born. Babies born too soon can have lifelong or life-threatening health problems.
Can Preterm Labor Be Stopped?
Many women are given drugs to try to delay or stop preterm labor. In some cases, birth can be delayed long enough to transport Mom to a hospital with a neonatal intensive care unit (NICU). Women may also be given medications that can improve the baby's health, even if the baby comes early.
Warning Signs
Here are the warning signs:
* Contractions (your abdomen tightens like a fist) every 10 minutes or more often
* Change in vaginal discharge (leaking fluid or bleeding from your vagina)
* Pelvic pressure—the feeling that your baby is pushing down
* Low, dull backache
* Cramps that feel like your period
* Abdominal cramps with or without diarrhea
What Should I Do If I Think I'm Having Preterm Labor?
Call your health care provider (nurse, doctor or midwife) or go to the hospital right away if you think you're having preterm labor, or if you have any of the warning signs. Call even if you have only one sign.
Your health care provider may tell you to:
* Come into the office or go to the hospital for a checkup.
* Stop what you're doing. Rest on your left side for one hour.
* Drink 2-3 glasses of water or juice (not coffee or soda).
If the symptoms get worse or do not go away after one hour, call your provider again or go to the hospital. If the symptoms get better, relax for the rest of the day.










My eldest was born at 27 weeks...I wouldn't wish that nightmare on anyone. I've always said--don't ever hesitate to call, no matter how stupid you feel or think your question is. It could mean more than you know.
do not want that