I have been trying to get some answers and ask just how dangerous it is to do this......
After dd2 was born she was layed on my stomach and we left the cord to finish pulsing before we cut it, which took about 30 mins...my m/w had me sit up and try pushing out the placenta, I wasn't having to many after pains, so she let me be for another 30 mins. then said she *had* to try pitocin to try and get some contractions going, so she gave me 1 shot and waited about 30 mins. I got VERY MILD contractions as a result, but I still tried pushing and she tried "pulling" on the cord....still nothing. I told her I felt like I needed to pee so she walked with me to the bathroom and placed a chucks pad under me incase it came out while I was trying to pee.....well I couldn't pee....so back to the bed we went and she gave me another shot of pitocin(mind you dd2 was b/f this whole time to try and get contractions going also) again waited about 20 or 30 mins. and we tried again, same as before, me pushing her pulling....still nothing. Only getting very mild contractions....she gave me about another 15 mins. and then reached up inside me to see if she could feel if it was "caught up" on something, she said she felt nothing....Did I mentioned how INCREDIBLY uncomfortable this whole process was.....So she tried a 3rd shot of pitocin, again waited another 15 mins. or so and tried the same process again.....again nothing....so she said she had to call for a transport to the hospital....I freaked out! I DID NOT want to go to the hospital, I had such a horrible experiance there with dd1. So she called and she said we would try one last thing....
As the paramedics arrived about 30 mins. later we shut the door and she had me get into a squatting position and I pushed with all my might while she pulled. FINALLY it came out after about 3 hrs. from the time of birth.
I didn't have any problems with hemmoraging or anything like that, but think I was just fortunate. Did she really do the right thing, or should I consider myself fortunate? She was really hands off thru the whole birthing process (although from the time she arrived it was only an hour long).
She was also a new m/w with only a couple years under her belt. I had been seeing the other m/w who had 8 yrs. experiance but she didn't make it in time because everything happened so fast (from the time I called to birth it was only about 2hrs.)
After dd2 was born she was layed on my stomach and we left the cord to finish pulsing before we cut it, which took about 30 mins...my m/w had me sit up and try pushing out the placenta, I wasn't having to many after pains, so she let me be for another 30 mins. then said she *had* to try pitocin to try and get some contractions going, so she gave me 1 shot and waited about 30 mins. I got VERY MILD contractions as a result, but I still tried pushing and she tried "pulling" on the cord....still nothing. I told her I felt like I needed to pee so she walked with me to the bathroom and placed a chucks pad under me incase it came out while I was trying to pee.....well I couldn't pee....so back to the bed we went and she gave me another shot of pitocin(mind you dd2 was b/f this whole time to try and get contractions going also) again waited about 20 or 30 mins. and we tried again, same as before, me pushing her pulling....still nothing. Only getting very mild contractions....she gave me about another 15 mins. and then reached up inside me to see if she could feel if it was "caught up" on something, she said she felt nothing....Did I mentioned how INCREDIBLY uncomfortable this whole process was.....So she tried a 3rd shot of pitocin, again waited another 15 mins. or so and tried the same process again.....again nothing....so she said she had to call for a transport to the hospital....I freaked out! I DID NOT want to go to the hospital, I had such a horrible experiance there with dd1. So she called and she said we would try one last thing....
As the paramedics arrived about 30 mins. later we shut the door and she had me get into a squatting position and I pushed with all my might while she pulled. FINALLY it came out after about 3 hrs. from the time of birth.
I didn't have any problems with hemmoraging or anything like that, but think I was just fortunate. Did she really do the right thing, or should I consider myself fortunate? She was really hands off thru the whole birthing process (although from the time she arrived it was only an hour long).
She was also a new m/w with only a couple years under her belt. I had been seeing the other m/w who had 8 yrs. experiance but she didn't make it in time because everything happened so fast (from the time I called to birth it was only about 2hrs.)














