I am hoping someone can help me understand what went wrong with my last birth and how I can prepare for my baby due in August.
We had a hospital birth at 42 weeks and I agreed to induction because my blood pressure was high and afraid of preeclampsia. I was on an IV most of the day (2pm until 2 am, baby born at 2236) but did not have hard labor until the last two hours, easy vaginal delivery but placenta was retained and had to be manually removed. I only had morphine for the removal of the placenta once baby was born, no other drugs. I was not supposed to eat or drink but my doula snuck me a fruit smoothee in the middle of the day.
The morphine made me so loopy I could not get baby on the breast right away and the nurse and doula would not do it. My husband said he was trying but I don't recall him still being there. Not to be crude but when I had my first baby 27 years ago the nurses would grab your tit and put the baby on it. Being a new mom and not knowing how to do it this worked. Nowadays it seems they have a "handsoff" policy.
So a few hours later I have a nurse waking me up saying baby has low blood sugar and my husband is in the nursery refusing a bottle of formula. I asked her is she could give glucouse water and she did by gavage but not enough protein and metabolized too quickly, so I agreed to formula by gavage. She refused to give me the baby or to let me nurse until blood sugar was stable and that took until 7am. I had my IV removed and refused further meds around 2am. So the doctor finally comes in and threatens to put her in NICU if I don't agree to formula feeding by bottle and tells me I can't nurse this baby because she is too sick. I'm sorry I don't remember the numbers but they were always in the low normal range.
At this time since I agreed to the formula feeding they gave me my baby and I promptly began nursing her, she did great, on the breast for a good twenty minutes per side and I woke her every two hours. They would then attempt to top her off with formula. My goal at this time was discharge home and I was scared they were going to get social services because we were so pro breastfeeding.
So we went home threw out the bottles and formula and four and a half years later we still have a great nursing relationship. I did have some early nipple confusion with her but we got through it.
I do not have gestational diabetes and never have, I do get the one hour test and pass without any problems each time. My last few pregnancies I have been overweight.
Sorry this is so long but we are afraid we will encounter the same with this next baby and we want to be prepared. The same hospital. They were very resistant to alternative methods of giving the baby formula, their protocol is to bottle feed and not allow nursing if the baby has low blood sugar. LC are not available nights or weekends. I don't have any milk myself right now and do not have anyone who could donate some, I'm not sure that would even be acceptable to the hospital if I showed up with frozen donor milk.
We are thinking
: that this time we will just agree to the bottle of formula and get it over with so that we can get our baby right away. I hate this idea but last time it was very traumatic for us to fight the nursery staff all night and then our baby was poked and prodded more than she should have been.
I am a high risk pregnancy seeing a peri group so giving birth outside the hospital is not going to happen. There is a chance I may even have to have a scheduled c-section this time. I have a thin area in my uterus that puts me at risk of rupture. I will do anything to have my baby safely delivered and staying at home seventy miles from the hospital is not an option. We can not have a midwife attended birth legally in our state either.
If I can't get baby to the breast myself then I am hoping my husband will get it together for me. He is a great guy but is one to stand by passively and let doctors and nurses have their way. We have talked about this but I don't feel like I am getting anywhere with him.
I would appreciate any ideas of how we could handle this better if it comes up again.
We had a hospital birth at 42 weeks and I agreed to induction because my blood pressure was high and afraid of preeclampsia. I was on an IV most of the day (2pm until 2 am, baby born at 2236) but did not have hard labor until the last two hours, easy vaginal delivery but placenta was retained and had to be manually removed. I only had morphine for the removal of the placenta once baby was born, no other drugs. I was not supposed to eat or drink but my doula snuck me a fruit smoothee in the middle of the day.
The morphine made me so loopy I could not get baby on the breast right away and the nurse and doula would not do it. My husband said he was trying but I don't recall him still being there. Not to be crude but when I had my first baby 27 years ago the nurses would grab your tit and put the baby on it. Being a new mom and not knowing how to do it this worked. Nowadays it seems they have a "handsoff" policy.
So a few hours later I have a nurse waking me up saying baby has low blood sugar and my husband is in the nursery refusing a bottle of formula. I asked her is she could give glucouse water and she did by gavage but not enough protein and metabolized too quickly, so I agreed to formula by gavage. She refused to give me the baby or to let me nurse until blood sugar was stable and that took until 7am. I had my IV removed and refused further meds around 2am. So the doctor finally comes in and threatens to put her in NICU if I don't agree to formula feeding by bottle and tells me I can't nurse this baby because she is too sick. I'm sorry I don't remember the numbers but they were always in the low normal range.
At this time since I agreed to the formula feeding they gave me my baby and I promptly began nursing her, she did great, on the breast for a good twenty minutes per side and I woke her every two hours. They would then attempt to top her off with formula. My goal at this time was discharge home and I was scared they were going to get social services because we were so pro breastfeeding.
So we went home threw out the bottles and formula and four and a half years later we still have a great nursing relationship. I did have some early nipple confusion with her but we got through it.
I do not have gestational diabetes and never have, I do get the one hour test and pass without any problems each time. My last few pregnancies I have been overweight.
Sorry this is so long but we are afraid we will encounter the same with this next baby and we want to be prepared. The same hospital. They were very resistant to alternative methods of giving the baby formula, their protocol is to bottle feed and not allow nursing if the baby has low blood sugar. LC are not available nights or weekends. I don't have any milk myself right now and do not have anyone who could donate some, I'm not sure that would even be acceptable to the hospital if I showed up with frozen donor milk.
We are thinking
: that this time we will just agree to the bottle of formula and get it over with so that we can get our baby right away. I hate this idea but last time it was very traumatic for us to fight the nursery staff all night and then our baby was poked and prodded more than she should have been.I am a high risk pregnancy seeing a peri group so giving birth outside the hospital is not going to happen. There is a chance I may even have to have a scheduled c-section this time. I have a thin area in my uterus that puts me at risk of rupture. I will do anything to have my baby safely delivered and staying at home seventy miles from the hospital is not an option. We can not have a midwife attended birth legally in our state either.
If I can't get baby to the breast myself then I am hoping my husband will get it together for me. He is a great guy but is one to stand by passively and let doctors and nurses have their way. We have talked about this but I don't feel like I am getting anywhere with him.
I would appreciate any ideas of how we could handle this better if it comes up again.










I refused the blood sugar test based on this fact. I told the nurse that we would check it if the baby started showing any symptoms (she listed them for me, but i don't remember what they were). She didn't bat an eyelash. And the my boy remained perfectly healthy 




