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post #1 of 32
7/8/07 at 11:00pm
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post #2 of 32
7/9/07 at 12:55am
I hear that! I found a kissing partner and I don't have sex. I'm not ready for that, but we single mamas do need affection, I believe. So I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes, it takes a few for that kissable one to come along. Believe me, I know...
post #3 of 32
7/9/07 at 2:54am
now can you forget how to kiss?
I need to figure that out myself.
post #4 of 32
7/9/07 at 6:01am
Kissing was and is pretty much the only reason I ever bothered with physical intimacy at all.

Kissing, for me, is sex. What's more intimate than a deep, passionate kiss? More than the act itself. I could live the rest of my life without sex pretty easily. Without kissing? Man...it's the one reason I want a partner sometime in the future.

Bad Mama Jama -

A kissing partner? I'd kill for one right now. I am so missing kissing and being kissed...

I. Love. Kissing.
post #5 of 32
7/9/07 at 9:35am
I am right here with you mamas! I miss it so badly, I crave it, I desire it and it escapes me... I had a fantastic kissing partner, but he is gone now, so here I sit for a year with nothing.

I understand and feel the longing...
post #6 of 32
7/9/07 at 11:58am
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Originally Posted by cjuniverse View Post
Bad Mama Jama -

A kissing partner? I'd kill for one right now. I am so missing kissing and being kissed...
I really enjoy it now. When I was with my ex, I grew to hate it. For me, it equalled the reality of having to have sex afterward. He was that type of guy.
Anyhow, since I am dating and it is someone I have known for the longest, I feel comfortable with him and know that this is at my pace, not the one someone else sets for me.
post #7 of 32
7/9/07 at 12:03pm

I feel guilty for replying

I feel bad for replying because I am married but ..

My husband is a terrible kisser. I think his mission is to devour up my mouth. So we dont kiss -except for hello/good bye.
post #8 of 32
7/9/07 at 12:31pm
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Originally Posted by pranamama View Post
now can you forget how to kiss?
I need to figure that out myself.
I don't think so. I went seven years between kisses (with a guy who happens to be the best kisser in the world, but it so totally not husband/stepfather material that it isn't funny) and it all came back to me just fine.



My newest addtion was conceived via Artificial insemination. I haven't had sex in sixteen years. At about ten, it was kind of cool, but now nobody believes me and if they did, I still can't decide whether I think it's cool or pathetic.
post #9 of 32
7/9/07 at 12:33pm
I miss it too.
post #10 of 32
7/9/07 at 9:02pm
I miss kissing but the hugs...man i would love for a big bear hug and a whispr in the ear...saying that everything will be ok and dont be afraid.:
post #11 of 32
7/10/07 at 12:29am
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post #12 of 32
7/10/07 at 2:51am
Stop it!! Now I have to go from my cold, lonely love seat (which hasn't seen two butts on it at the same time in ages) and crawl into my cold, lonely bed. Doesn't help that I just watched three chick flicks and, of course, they all ended happily and sappily.
post #13 of 32
7/10/07 at 4:14am
I miss all of that a LOT....
post #14 of 32
7/10/07 at 5:20am
I miss the snuggling into the hollow below the collar bone, watching movies, sharing popcorn; then sleeping back to back, cheek to cheek.

sniff.

hugs to you all,
Bryanna
post #15 of 32
7/10/07 at 5:34am
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hth!
post #16 of 32
7/10/07 at 5:35am
I do miss kissing, but so do NOT miss kissing DH.
Actually, now that he's gone, I'm GLAD!
post #17 of 32
7/10/07 at 12:09pm
Geez, count me in. I keep having dreams about kissing lately - which makes me so distracted the whole next day. And thank goodness I don't see the object of my kissing dreams at school anymore....or have to hear him talk about his girlfriend.
post #18 of 32
7/10/07 at 4:05pm
I'm not usually this bad, but between the pregnancy hormones and general low self-esteem issues, I'm horrible.

I enticed Mr. Wrong (my soulmate who is NOT marryable) into sending me the perfect Long Distance Relationship email last night.

All it said was that I'm beautiful, he loves me, everything will be all right, and to take care of myself and the "kids".

That's all I wanted to hear. I don't care if he lied to me about going to Mexico because he didn't want to see me offline or if he ^&* up his money and is homeless again or anything that has anything to do with reality.

All I care about is that he thinks I'm beautiful, he loves me, and he tells such pretty, prety lies.

I still wish I could hug him and kiss him and look into the pretty eyes from which the pretty lies emerge and have no need at all of anything as complicated and exhausting and ultimately imperfect as language.
post #19 of 32
7/10/07 at 8:53pm
I miss it so much, and it's only been a month. But it was with the one who broke my heart. I don't want to kiss anyone else. I hope this feeling changes. Of course, since I'm pregnant now, I doubt any single guys will be jumping all over me to kiss me anyway!
post #20 of 32
7/10/07 at 9:08pm
Don't count on it! There's definitely something sexual about pregnancy. I met and married dd18's father when I was pregnant with Phoenix, and even though that was a mistake, after two years of completely putting "Mr. Wrong" out of my mind and "getting over" him, he rematerializes as soon as the AI finally works on the fifteenth attempt.

So now I don't quite know WHAT I am. I'm mostly a SMC, but an LDR on the side doesn't look too bad to me and a seven year long friendship with benefits looks even better.

It's our hormones talking though. Sanity will return soon enough. Congratulations on your new little one and thanks for making me feel less alone about my guilty fantasies.
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