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as to the food, i lived in a shelter w/ my son and we ate ALOT of donated food which was all fat/icky stuff. people wonder why the poor in this country are overweight! when i finally got food stamps other people were AMAZED at how i lost 20 extra lbs. and amazed that i could eat so well on so little money. i think that it might be worth doing some shopping together or asking if she'd like help making a budget or pricing different groceris. it's easy to get lost in a rut of buying at a place that seems like it;s" for you, the poor" and so much of it, for me at least, was psychologcal. you know? it was a major turning pt when i understood how affordable fresh veggies and fruit could be and what i could pair them with and how if i was careful i could even buy the nice cheese as a treat for us at the end of the month. understanding that we _deserved_ to eat well and making that happen w/ food stamps.
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What is hard for me is that she calls her kids retards and stupid, threatens to hit them, tells them she doesn't love them when they piss her off, that she can't stand to be around them, that she is going to leave if they don't act right, and that she can't stand to look at them. When they tell her they love her she says "no you don't" or "get away from me".
She used to hit them before they moved here. How I know this is because she threatens it in such a way that you know she has done it and also she has commented that she can't do it in our house. Also, the 5 yr told DH and I at the dinner table that when her mom hits her she dreams of putting her mom in a fire grill.

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Wow, I imagine it is very, very difficult to be around. Good for you for hanging in there the best you can.

Don't you just know this is what your niece also heard as a child? It's hearbreaking,*but* there is hope!!!

Hugs to you all.
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judejude it's been awhile since we got an update... just wondering how things are going?
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