ARGH!!! My post disappeared into the dark corners of the internet.

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Originally Posted by Sihaya 
Though we have the same mw, she didn't call it [unproven pelvis surcharge] to me  She explained that first-time moms tend to take more time and energy and often call the mw and want her to arrive far before an "experienced" mom would. The way she does her pricing is fine with me. She was well within our budget either way!
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Well that seems reasonable. It might sound less prejudicial if she framed it as a "multiple-mom discount" or some such thing as women who've birthed before tend to call her later in labor. It just doesn't have the same insinuation that first time moms are high-maintenance.
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Originally Posted by ~Kristina~ 
[Unproven pelvis discount is] how our midwife refers to it. Sorry if it creeps anyone out, I didn't come up with it.
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When I first read
Spiritual Midwifery I was shocked to learn the first thing Ina May would do after arriving at a laboring mom's place was pelvimetry (sp?) to determine if the woman was capable of vaginal birth. That such things happen didn't shock me but that they'd be the protocol for a leader in the midwifery and natural childbirth movements did.
The unproven pelvis discount sounded to me like another HB MW with serious doubts of women's ability to birth.
~BV
P.S. Ten years ago my MW charged $1000 globally. That was for all but one of the prenatals and the post-partum check up at her house and one prenatal and the birth at the client's house. She'd cover birth's up to two hours in any direction so prenatal's at a clients' houses weren't economically or logistically feasible. She's since raised her rates but I have no idea what they are now.