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Shall I let him go there?  

post #1 of 11
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Hello from germany, bavaria :-)
I´ve got a problem with my 12-yo son. The parents of his best friend bought a little piece of land in a wood. The former owner left a very old car there that has to be removed. It is about 30 years old, a huge Mercedes-Benz, and it can´t be driven anymore. So the parents have decided to go there with about 10-15 men and women and try to get it out by hands. Of course, my son wants to go with his friend there, too. I talked to the mom and asked what they are planning, she said they want to try and push the Mercedes out of the wood because no tow-truck can reach that area. If it´s too rusty and can´t be pushed they plan to lift the car by hands and bounce or carry it out at the bumpers and the wheel-cases. I´m not too sure if that´s a really good idea to let rather young boys go there, but she´s not worried at all. She just says, the two should take an old t-shirt and their old, greasy leather shorts so they can get a little dirty and everything will go right. I worry about the boys probably getting hurt when helping at the car or even just standing around the car they try to move somehow and cheering the adults on etc.
How would you as mom decide?
Thank you very much
Daniela
post #2 of 11
i dont think its that big of a deal kids could get hurt playing in a tree. with this they are learning how to help people in a situation
post #3 of 11
Sounds like a lot of fun for a 12 year old kid
post #4 of 11
Do you know the parents of the friend? Are they responsible parents? If so, it would probably be fine and your son would probably have fun.
post #5 of 11
I let my 12yo son go. He generally has better judgment than I do, so I'm sure he'd be fine.
post #6 of 11
Boys love adventures and this sounds like a good one. I would let him go. If you refuse then you have to consider what the fallout might be, will he resent you and in the future maybe not be as open about asking to do things that he will then do in secret?
post #7 of 11
I'm confused about why you think it's a bad idea??

It sounds fun to me. Let him go
post #8 of 11
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Originally Posted by Shaina View Post
i dont think its that big of a deal kids could get hurt playing in a tree. with this they are learning how to help people in a situation
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Originally Posted by Oriole View Post
Sounds like a lot of fun for a 12 year old kid
Agreed and agreed!

At least it's an old Mercedes-Benz, so it's not likely to be too rusty.
If it were an old Austin or Lancia though, I'd be worried that it would fall apart into a pile of sharp, rusty spikes the minute they tried to move it.

I'm kidding! It truly does sound like a great project. Have they thought of using a tractor and logging chain or tow rope to drag it to the nearest road?
post #9 of 11
Sounds like fun for him. Our now-15 year old friend has been helping with farm work, tractors and the like since he was 9 or 10, and I'm sure that's included moving broken down vehicles and other rusty things.
post #10 of 11
Cool! I'd let my 10 yo. son go. Of course, my DH would want to go join in the action too, so he'd be looked after.
post #11 of 11
Yep, I'd send my son, and I'd want to come along too, sounds like a fun time.
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