I met with dd's bio-father for lunch yesterday. It went really, really good.
We spent about 2.5 hours talking -- catching up on stuff, discussing dd (of course), all sorts of stuff. More than anything, it was like having lunch with an old friend who I haven't seen in a long time... which is what he is, after all.
He and his wife are coming down tomorrow (Sat.) -- dh and I are going out for supper with them, then after supper his wife and I will kind of do our own thing, to give dh and him a chance to talk. Then on Sunday, dh and I will bring dd to their hotel to meet them, and the five of us will probably grab a bite to eat somewhere and then just hang out for the day.
Please keep us in your thoughts -- I'm sure everything will go well this weekend, but good vibes never hurt! I'll be sure to update after the weekend.