It's a BOY!

[look11]

We went for our level 2 u/s today and not only found out that the baby is healthy and right on track growth-wise, but it's a BOY. I'm freaking out! I was a little emotional during the u/s. I think it was the relief of finally seeing a healthy baby after 2 miscarriages. (I do have one perfect daughter, as well.) But when we saw that unmistakable boy part, I was overjoyed!

The weird thing is, since this morning, I'm finding the boy thing harder to handle. I don't know what to do with a boy! I can't even imagine bonding with a boy. I know I will, but I'm just a little freaked out. I don't like doing stereotypical gender-based things. I don't want him to have clothes covered with trucks and sports logos. Do I have to read him "Bob the Builder" books instead of "Goodnight Moon?" Okay, I know all of this is ridiculous and I will get used to the idea of a boy. I just didn't expect to have these crazy thoughts. I do desperately want my daughter to have a sister, and knowing that this is probably our last baby means she'll never have the sister-bond that I have with mine. I just can't imagine going through life without a sister.

Okay, I'm ranting. I should just go to bed. Despite my spinning head, I really am delighted to have seen my healthy baby boy! Seriously!

[weliveintheforest]

What exciting news!

[ohiomommy1122]

boys are a lot of fun, and no Good night moon is fine! I only had a brother growing up and we played all the time as kids and had a real close relationship ( except for the teen years) but other than than we were and are still close. ((congrats)) we hopefully find out what I'm having today as well!

[A&A]

Congrats! And please consider visiting the Case Against Circumcision forum here on MDC.

[susanrc]

Congrats and I know EXACTLY how you feel. Everyone thinks we are going to have a boy, but I really want DD to have a sister. I only have 1 sister and we are best friends now If we do have a boy I won't be disappointed either way. As long as he/she is healthy that is the most important thing.

[julichris]

Congrats on the boy and the healthy baby news!!
I have three brothers...one is only 2 yrs older than me, the others two are 12-14 yrs older. I'm not as close with them. I have to say, however, I LOVE having a brother. I don't know what it's like to have a sister bond and, at times, I wished I knew. However, I wouldn't trade my relationship with my bro fir ANYTHING. It's WONDERFUL having a brother. Think of all the advice she can get from him when they're older.
Also, I've nannied for a few different families in my day and somehow it has only been boys. Goodnight Moon and all those "soft and sweet" books are perfectly fine and appropriate for him. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised at the level affection which boys offer. I personally think they're more affectionate little ones than girls. JMO.........

[wagamama]

When I was pregnant with my first, I wanted a girl so badly, and when I found out it was a boy, I was in shock. Then he was born, and I found out how lovely boys are. They love their mamas more than anything! I am now so crazy about my little boy (he's 2), that I can't imagine having a girl.

I also hate all the boyish clothes -- seems like they only come in dark blue, red and beige -- with trucks and tools on them. I can hardly ever find anything for ds in the store, so I buy most of his clothes at garage sales and thrift shops. He wears purple, yellow, light blue, white, shirts with cute little bears on them, tye-dye. He doesn't like dolls, but plays with his teddy bears all the time. He also loves his cars of course.

Anyway, don't worry. Boys are the best! I'm hoping for another one!

[ohiomommy1122]

Originally Posted by wagamama

When I was pregnant with my first, I wanted a girl so badly, and when I found out it was a boy, I was in shock. Then he was born, and I found out how lovely boys are. They love their mamas more than anything! I am now so crazy about my little boy !

couldnt have said it better!

[YummyYumYumMama]

I never had a sister - just my brother! But we were inseparable and always played together. I can't imagine it being any better if he was a girl... it was perfect the way it was!

I've worked in infant/toddler childcare and all the boys love Goodnight Moon and all kinds of books. (All the kids also love rocking out to the Bob the Builder CD.) They also all like books about cats and other things you might think are "girly." Basically I think when they're really little they're too young to know what girls and boys are "supposed" to like - and if they're exposed to all kinds of different things then it's better for them!

Congrats on the boy!

[DucetteMama21842]

Originally Posted by MmeMuffin

Basically I think when they're really little they're too young to know what girls and boys are "supposed" to like - and if they're exposed to all kinds of different things then it's better for them!

Exactly. Also, I have a brothers and sisters and I have to say my relationship with my brothers very special. (The mature ones at least. ) I have one I was particularily close to and it made me try to make better choices because of how I looked up to him and knew his views of me. Don't worry a bit, and you never know if you guys might want more later...

[Momma2DoubleCuties]

Boys are a complete blast, they have a bond with their mommas that is so special and magical. Its such a wonderful thing.

Congrats!

[mama_b]

Congrats! I also just found out I'm having a boy and am having much of the same feelings as you. I also really want my dd to have a sister. But I also am thrilled to have a healthy baby.

[Brees_Mama]

yay!! congrats!!!! :