You are absolutely doing the right thing to fight for what's best for your baby. My mom was basically forced into a C-section at 34 weeks with my brother and the effects, physically and emotionally, on both of them continue to this day. I have often wished I could go back in time and give her a little support for how she felt, because that was all she would have needed to stand her ground. I'm so glad that you have the information and support that you need.
They can babble on about risks all they want, but you and your baby are the ones who will have to live with the outcome. You are much more motivated to get this right than any doctor. And you live in one of the bodies concerned, which give you access to information no one else has. Do what feels right.
Sending strength and health vibes. I hope everything turns out well.
