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asher benjamin is here!  

post #1 of 14
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my very sweet, VERY LARGE baby boy was born via c-section on 7/12/07. after all these months of planning, preparation, anticipation and excitement for a natural labor, i ended up having to schedule a section due to some possible health risks for my baby.

i had a u/s on 7/11, it's the doctors' practice to do this at the end of a pregnancy when your AFP test came back abnormal, as mine did. so, reluctantly, i went in(i was annoyed--i had to go to another town to do it in, reaarrange a schedule for my older ds, etc.)

the u/s showed asher to be around 12 pounds. that in itself didn't bother me too much. baby had dropped, he was in position, and i was contracting, fairly strongly, about every 6 minutes..so i was pretty sure he'd be on his way in the next few days. the doctors, though, hated the idea of his size(of course). they sent me for a level 2 u/s to confirm the results of the first, with a perinatologist. when i saw her, she confirmed his size, and also some other possible factors that made us very, very nervous. first--his kidneys appeared to not be filtering water out properly. his stomach looked very large, even for his size, and i had apparently WAY too much water for what i should have at this point in pregnancy. my water also appeared to have meconium in it, and that really troubled them(and me.)

so, ultimately, we decided the best thing to do was get him out asap. they scheduled the section for the next morning, and also had a neonatologist there just in case something was wrong.

i felt it was the best decision i could make with the information i had. my baby's safety is the most important thing, and at that moment, things were looking bad--even though things are ok and he's very healthy, i don't regret my decision. it was made with lots of thought, heartache, and with the best of intentions.

anyway, for the stats! asher benjamin was born at 9:44 a.m. on 7/12/07. he was 11 lbs, 5 oz, and 21 inches long. i got to nurse him right away in recovery, and he's doing fabulously. so far, he's a great sleeper, which is much different from his big brother, and we're all totally in love with this little(big) guy.

it's been fun sharing my pregnancy with all of you! and congrats on the births of all of your babes.

here are a few pics:
http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e1...0/CIMG0742.jpg

http://i38.photobucket.com/albums/e1...0/CIMG0771.jpg

thanks for reading!
post #2 of 14
Congratulations Casey! I'm glad to hear he's doing well after the scare you had.
post #3 of 14
What a cutie! You did really well and exactly what i would have done in that situation. Well done carrying a 11lb baby to you too. Can I ask how his kidneys are doing now? Was everything they said about him right? He obviously was big but you said he was healthy, do tell and
Congratulations and welcome Asher
post #4 of 14
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everything was fine. he had a heart murmur at birth, but that's already gone. we're just so glad he's healthy.
post #5 of 14
What scrumptious little baby cheeks!!! He's fabulous. Congrats, mama!
post #6 of 14
congratulations!!! what a cute chunky monkey!!! btw, you're a great mom... you did what you thought was best for your baby, despite what your original plans were. way to go mama!
post #7 of 14
you describe your decision making so beautifully, mama!
what a labor in itself (in addition to the other labor it sounds like you were basically in!) that must have been to weigh all that info out.
good work and i must say when i saw that second picture this is what happened: teeth clenched together and lips pursed out i mumbled in a low voice, "oooooooooooooooooooo, what a cuuuutie!" so loud that i woke up sleepy three week old matty boone from his sling nap,
post #8 of 14
Awh! He is precious!! Gosh what scrumpdiddliumptious cheeks and baby lips he has!! : He's a doll, mama! You did GREAT.

Alayna
post #9 of 14
Congratulations!! What a big guy, and such a cutie! Glad he's healthy!
post #10 of 14
Aww what a little chunker... he's so cute with those chubby baby cheeks!
post #11 of 14
Congrats Casey! Welcome Asher chubby cheeks!
post #12 of 14
Wow, he is HUGE! It seems like the ultrasound gave you accurate information.
post #13 of 14
Congrtas mama!he is so adorable!!!: too cute,good job.enjoy ur new baby boy!
post #14 of 14
Congrats, mama! I am sure you are so happy to have him on the outside with you now! I am sorry you had such a long ordeal and hard decision, and hope you feel ok with it all... we had a similar decision with DS1, and had to go with a C. I know there is a whole range of feelings that goes along with it, and just want you to know I'm sending extra hugs, and celebratory ones , too, for your beautiful baby boy and family! HOpe your recovery is quick, too!
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