When my mother gave us a large cash gift, the Gift Tax cut off was 10k. That was 5 years ago. We used it for the downpayment on the house.
If someone were to gift me that amount of money now... after I got up off the floor from passing out, I would pay off most of the debt and set money aside to go visit family. Obviously family is important! I did not note anything in the OP's post that the money was earmarked from grandma to buy a car... but maybe I misread it. If that was the case, then I would buy the car instead of paying off debt.
What a lovely thing for DP's Grandma to gift you, very generous
If someone were to gift me that amount of money now... after I got up off the floor from passing out, I would pay off most of the debt and set money aside to go visit family. Obviously family is important! I did not note anything in the OP's post that the money was earmarked from grandma to buy a car... but maybe I misread it. If that was the case, then I would buy the car instead of paying off debt.
What a lovely thing for DP's Grandma to gift you, very generous











i'd hire the best lawyer and get divorced
