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how do you approach this? It's early in my planning but I was thinking about this. My youngest is 4 years 1 month. He is neurologically like a 2 year old. When he reaches the age of compulsory education (6 here in FL) what to do?

Right now we use Kumon First Steps workbooks our therapist recommended. It's for ages 2 and up. He sometimes colors and cuts but he can only do the first few pages. (He only has 2 thumbs and 4 fingers and all are very short and weak). (The workbooks get harder as you progress.) (My oldest ds never liked to color much with crayons either. We use markers and fingerpaints sometimes but it's a fast proposition! He works fast, makes a huge mess, and moves on to something else! LOL!)

I assume whatever he does that is appropriate for him will suffice? Meaning he may just be mastering the 2 and up workbooks at age 6 and that's okay because it's "commensurate with his ability" as per my state's law.

With my other children they show an interest in learning something and I facilitate. If I buy something that is too easy for them they either ignore it or zoom through it!

I bought "Little Hands to Heaven" and some "Handwriting Without Tears" things, and Wee Sing Fingerplays but it is very obvious these things are well above his ability. Lately he doesn't even care for me to read to him. We are working on physical things like catching balls (think those colorful ones from the grocery store that are lightweight and a little smaller than a basketball as well as those koosh type balls with the rubbery hair on them).

I have to teach myself special education it seems. It's really personalizing his education since he's harder to figure out. He's very hard to understand as he has apraxia and dysarthria (motor planning disorder). He speaks in vowel sounds. He may have other issues that are just soming to light. (Other than his hands at birth we had no idea anything might be wrong as his was my shortest and most blissful natural birth.)

All thoughts appreciated!

Sincerely,
Debra, homeschooling mom of 4 ages 10 1/2 (AS), 9 1/2, 7 1/2, and 4 (Apraxia, Dysarthria, HFA)
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my sn son is younger than yours so i am not in that situation as yet.

i wanted to offer some info that i was told be our OT. she explained that a childs skills can be looked at like a house. she said that you cannot work on the walls, windows or roof until the foundation is in place and strong. you mentioned that your son's dev. age was around 2 than I would focus on skills for that age group and not worry about more complex skills yet. work up to them.

also, i think internal motivation is a huge issue, try to work with what your child likes already and try to expand. if he plays with sand teach him colours of shovels or count scoops of sand etc.

i was wondering if you have tried PECS with your child. my son has no functional language at all, but after introducing pecs we found out my son can count to ten, knows his colours and some words!! sometimes they like to keep secrets about what they know!

HTH!
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I use so many PECs I bought my own laminator!

I bought Boardmaker @ Home and I've made my own large communication book plus a travel book. I have keyring PECs on my purse and one in the car that goes on the back of the headrest so my son can know where we are going (therapy, gas station, grocery store, home for example). We also have a Go Talk 4+.

I bought the Song Activity Kit from Pyramid Products to help with learning songs since he really likes visual aids: http://www.pyramidproducts.com/catal...dcc03b425e1a0f

It's true what you say in your last sentence because my son showed he knows his colors and he can count to 7 and I wasn't aware of that! (Well he won't try with me anyway! LOL!)

Thank you for your reply. I found it useful!

Sincerely,
Debra, homeschooling mom of 4 ages 10 1/2 (AS), 9 1/2, 7 1/2, and 4 (Apraxia, Dysarthria, HFA)
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wow it sounds like you are on top of the visual helpers - im am a bit jealous:


about them keeping what they know a secret, i struggle with this. my son not have the need to please me like a nt kid, so i have to find creative ways for him to show me. for example - my son counts on his fingers properly to ten but would not point to a number when prompted. we figured out he will pick up correct number on a pec if we blow bublles when he does it. not for us but for his bubbles:
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We use a consultant, so I do have someone to help us with the direction we take with our son, and to help problem solve roadblocks. It has been wonderful. Our son is 6-years-old, but developmentally closer to 2 or 3. We work on a lot of self-help and preacademic skills. He also will do amazing things not for us but for the right toy! (Bubbles work sometimes, but his pounding ball ramp is the all time winner!)
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