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Shooting pains in the vaginia - Yep. I am getting these. My midwife was not as encouraging as everyone elses. I hinted that I hoped it might be the cervix opening and stretching. She laughed and said, "nope, what happens is the baby's head is all settled inside the pelvis and so when he moves, he hits a nerve which results in shooting pain. Cervix changes feel more crampy". Blah, I've turned down all VEs so far so I have no idea what's really going on down there. I did try to feel for my cervix yesterday but couldn't find it. So I am guessing is it still very high and anterior.

Julia - Yeah, I HATE getting out of bed the preggo way. You do feel like a total invalid. Just know that soon enough you will BE an invalid (now that I am 37 weeks, that is actually the ONLY way I can get out of bed!Blah. I am so heavy and swollen that my mobility/flexibility is severely limited). Glad to hear you are giving your stomach muscles a break.

Hooray for only 4 more shows! You can do it (and hopefully the POTO will no longer be "here, inside my mind" )

Elizabeth - Re: slings, I ended up purchasing a hotsling in the sateen fabric (gives it a little shine & stretch) AND a Gypsy Mama Bali Baby Stretch (like a Moby wrap, but the fabric is lighter and more appropriate for warmer climates/weather). DH has a Baby Bjorn Air carrier (whatever - as long as he wears the baby I will be happy). I also really want a ring sling, but haven't decided on brand or fabric.

Becky - I can't believe I am "fullterm"! OMG. Of course then I look in the mirror and think, how can I NOT be fullterm. I still have one daycare interview and our pediatrician interviews (I scheduled 4 - yes, I am a bit obsessive about the whole thing) next week PLUS DH will be out of town Tuesday-Thursday AND I have a wonderful friend from college visiting next weekend so the baby needs to stay put until the 19th. I am pretty sure he can do it, just means that I need to hang in there as well.
I can't believe you are moving at this stage. I am pretty useless and I think DH would kill me if we were supposed to be moving (I mean seriously, just driving my car gives me BH. I can't imagine actually packing boxing and moving crap around!). Good luck Becky, I know it will feel great once you are settled into the new place!

Natalia - Ha! Stop playing all innocent ("I don't know what meth is officer!") Remember last winter when we played the lie, lie, truth game? You've had your run-ins with the cops

On a more serious note - your white tongue may be a yeast infection. I don't think it will kill you, but I'd definitely get it checked out on Monday.

ETA - Group B Strep is a normal bacteria that occupy the digestive tract. In the US preggo women are screened for the presence of GBS in the vaginia and rectum. If the bacteria are found, those women are typically administered IV antibiotics during labor to reduce the chances of transmitting the bacteria to the baby. Apparently, the chances of transmitting the bacteria are very small, but if the baby does get it, it can die (so living in lawsuit happy USA, docs would MUCH rather do everything they can to prevent). In Europe, GBS is treated on if the babe shows signs of infection. HTHs
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Has anyone picked out slings/carriers yet? I'm at a loss. There are so many resources, but there's no really clear favorite. I'm leaning toward the Kangaroo Korner or Bundle of Love adjustable pouch, but I'm not loving the fabric options with either. Too many decisions!!! Dh HATES the Ergo, too; it is pretty ugly. I know it's the most comfortable thing (or so it seems) for a carrier, but I don't think I could get DH to wear it! The wraps just look way too complicated for either of us.
we've got an unpadded maya wrap in denim, a bjorn in navy with plaid inside, and an ergo in black with a yellow bug print inside. they were all gifts -- not what we had registered for -- but i think they were great choices. in particular i wouldn't have focused on the ergo, going for the bjorn instead, but now i think the ergo looks way better. we watched part of the instructional video on the maya wrap and were intimidated.
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we haven't been practicing nearly enough.
same here. i don't think dh is ever going to practice it -- i think it's all me. but when i get home from work i just crash.
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DH will be out of town Tuesday-Thursday
Yikes!
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Another long time TTC member -and a new member too! - are pregnant!!!
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Ooh! Who is it?
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Yikes!
I know. I am trying really hard not to freak either one of us out about it.

I have a contingency plan, just in case - so I'll be fine. But I'd hate for DH to miss the birth.
post #169 of 552
Hi everyone!

It seems like lots of us are winding up our work. Pie, you're getting really close, right? Julia, final shows? Emily, congrats on finishing your grant! As for me, it's all over but the grading. Yay us.

Becky, do take it easy as you move! I hope it goes smoothly. You too, Laura!

Dee, oh good, so I'm not the only slacker diss wise Well, I don't think of it as slacking, but realistically putting it on hold when I have to. Now, of course, it's hard to get back into it. Humanities dissertations seem way more amorphous... I don't think I have what you'd call a "method" section, exactly.

You all played a game wherein you discovered Natalia has a "record"? Sorry I missed that.

Sling-wise, we were just gifted with a P-sling. It's sooooo pretty. I wouldn't have minded a girlier one myself, but because we plan to share it we picked a pale orangey color.

I'm nervous about all I have to do, and nervous about money, but I'm focusing on optimism. I think the baby will bring all sorts of luck and abundance into our lives, rather than simply depleting us financially and sleep-wise and all that. Why not?

Exciting to peek into the other thread and read about people just starting this journey.
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I know. I am trying really hard not to freak either one of us out about it.

I have a contingency plan, just in case - so I'll be fine. But I'd hate for DH to miss the birth.
How far out of town will he be? In this case there's an UP-side to the fact that first labors tend to be longer!

Baby stay put!

Have you asked him (the baby) to wait if he can until daddy is back? I think I am believing in this connection where baby can understand and respond to requests.
post #171 of 552
OK, I think I'm ready to be added to the list, the BFP has sunk in enough now!

GISDiva (Kim) Age 32, EDD April 15, 2008
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Lane - DH will be quite far away...Boston. I HAVE told the babe to please stay put until Daddy gets home. Here's hoping he is an obedient child :

Kim
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exciting news in the august ddc!

I promise I wasn't stalking (well, not THIS time). It's just that it was a new thread that happened to pop up and I recognized the username...

oops, screaming baby to attend to.
post #174 of 552
Hi *waves hand shyly* I'm new here.

I'm Melanie, 31 and due with my 1st sometime in April.

I feel like I might be jinxing things buy posting here because we just found out we are pregnant this week and it is a bit of a surprise (not a crazy surprise, just earlier than we had planned). Now I'm trying to read & learn as much as possible about everything to sound like I know what I am talking about once we finally start telling people. I'm glad I found this place though! It has been helpful already - especially since I don't actually have friends with kids and we don't want to tell anyone yet!
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CJ are you talking about this? Erianna had her baby, a : , Ariel Efrain: http://www.mothering.com/discussions...=1#post8883265
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Kim and Melanie! M, you can't jinx it, I don't believe in that. Just join in when you're ready! So happy to have you both.

Lane, congrats on getting through the classes, good luck getting grades in, yay us!

The Phantom of the Opera has had his final bow in DC and is now moving on to haunt theaters in Ottowa. And I am FREE for over three weeks! Then the fall opera season starts and I'll play for as long as I can stand to, but I'm not gonna think about that yet. For now, I'm on VACATION!!!! Woohoo!!!!

Emily "here inside my mind" ... you must know the show then? I'm sure the music will stay "here inside my mind" until we start working on some new stuff, but at least I don't have to go to work for a while. It will fade in time. Stay, baby, stay! No coming out yet! People keep telling me first babies tend to come late, after the due date. :
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CJ are you talking about this? Erianna had her baby, a : , Ariel Efrain: http://www.mothering.com/discussions...=1#post8883265
yep - hurray eri_flores!

welcome to Kim and Melanie!

So today is ella's first day in the office. A trial run, I didn't think we'd make it more than an hour. she's been happy and sleeping all morning though. Only problem with this scenario is that I feel the need to do work!
btw - we had an ugly vax situation last week. I had talked myself and DH into waiting until 4-6 months before starting anything. But, at the appt I got pressured into DTaP, Hib, and prevnar. Ella was out of sorts for 2 days and I felt horrible. not sure we're going to do the 4 month round.

julia - enjoy the break, you earned it.
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babe at work

HOW did having Ella in the office go? WHAT did you do with her? Wear her, and if so in what? Put her under a Tiny Love Gymini, in a swing, in a bouncy seat? Something else I haven't thought of?

P.S. My colleague brought her 9 mo. old to the office and wore in a Bjorn. It was not quite a full day, but certainly more than a half day. It seemed to work okay, although she says she wasn't as productive as she would have been otherwise. Baby took 2 naps right on her.
post #179 of 552
Oh my Goodness!!!

First of all Welcome to all the newbies and Congratulations to all the new moms on here and Congratulations to all the new moms to be!

Secondly, a million apologies for being MIA around here for well, my entire last trimester. I've spent a lot of time on some high risk forums as I had a million questions and feel terrible for not keeping up on the loop around here.

It looks as if things are progressing really great for everyone and everyone is healthy!! This is wonderful.

I am 38 weeks as of tomorrow. Just switched medications (from one type of blood thinner to another as of this morning). And other than that, waiting. Like Emily I've been getting cramps and just odd twinges of pain and feel like if I stand straight long enough I'll just tip forward. Everyone I know in real life seems to have gone into labour earlier. And looky here. Not me.

My high risk OB's blatantly told me that if I don't go into labour on my own by my due date, then I will probably be induced just b/c my risks of getting a blood clot in these next 2 weeks is the highest that it can be throughout the entire pregnancy. I keep that little tid bit in the dark corner of my mind where I try to forget about it or else I'd go insane with worry. They've been very proactive in not wanting to induce me and let me go into labour on my own but they draw the line at being overdue with all of my issues. So we shall see.

Any natural labour inducers?? Anyone trying anything?
post #180 of 552
i am going to try induction, with my mws' approval, later this week -- once i hit week 39. they are not believers in nipple stim, sex, walks, spicy food, etc. can't hurt but they don't think it will help.

if i don't go by 40 w, 6 d, we will consider castor oil (YUCK!), but there is a danger it will cause the babe to pass meconium.

i feel like i am going to go into labor on thursday and have the baby on friday. just a feeling...
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