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Birth Bead Swap

post #1 of 58
Thread Starter 
Hello,
I was wondering if anyone would be interested in doing this? I see that many of the other DDC's are doing it. I think it is a really cool and special idea to do for each other....any thoughts? Anyone done it before and know how to organize it?
post #2 of 58
I'd be interested - none of the ladies I know around here would be into the idea! I've never done it before, but it doesn't look too complicated. If no one with experience is able to take this on, I'd give it a swing.
post #3 of 58
I'd like to, but I am not completely sure what birth beads are.: I have tons of beading supplies, but not sure what I would need for this project.
post #4 of 58
I would be in! I have never participated in one before but I imagine we would have to go through the swap board, which has it's own set of rules on who can run a swap and how to organize it. Also, I think that would limit who could participate because they would have to have TP access. Not a problem if everyone in the DDC already has access but I am not sure if that is the case or not?
post #5 of 58
Nah, we'd use a Yahoo group or a Google group to organize.
post #6 of 58
I'm in...

-L
post #7 of 58
I would hope that everyone in the DDC has TP access by now anyhow- if not, you're just not posting enough I was going to ask if anyone was up for a second trimester swap, but for obvious reasons I can't do a birth bead one.

Basically, everyone signs up and sends the volunteer the number of beads required for everyone on the list to have one (include yourself in this number.) You also enclose a SAE which covers what it cost to send the beads to the volunteer, plus a small margin of error. International mamas negotiate with the volunteer as to paypal, chocolate, marmite, or other international means of money transfers.
I'm SURE that one of the DDC's actually has their birth bead swap on their main page, but I could be wrong. As long as the main DDC has the information on who is hosting the swap, anyone who doesn't have TP privileges yet can contact that individual and be included that way- it's not like a traditional swap where there's negotiation over packages and whathaveyou.
Saying that, I'm going to have more money come September, so you'll get nicer beads from me if you can wait until then. Just saying...
post #8 of 58
I don't see any reason to go through a swap board to do this. We're not exchanging money or goods for goods, just sharing something special with each other, and if one person doesn't do it, it doesn't hurt other people (other than missing out on one more bead).

From what I gather, people sign up to participate so we get a head count, and each person buys the same bead for every person who signs up (so all of you would get the same bead from me). Then we all mail the beads to each other, maybe including an inspirational passage about birth, and each person makes a necklace with all the beads from everyone. So we'd need to have a post with a deadline on it for people to sign up, and then probably off-site get one another's mailing addresses to each other.
post #9 of 58
I'd be in. I did a birth bead swap once with the ladies on AllDoulas.com and it was a great experience. I ended up with a beautiful bracelet in the end and it is a special thing I wear to births I attend as a Doula.

There were 20 women in the swap and 1 person was running the whole thing. Each participant mailed her beads along with a self addressed return envelope to the organizer by a certain predetermined date. Then once the organizer received them all she sorted them and mailed them back to the ladies in the self addressed return envelope.
post #10 of 58
Thread Starter 
I thought the beads would be neat, since I love beaded things, but I am up for any other kind of swap as well. I was lurking in April and they have so many great ideas for swaps that they are going to do each trimester.
post #11 of 58
I'd be in for both the birth bead and a 2nd trimester swap.
post #12 of 58
what's TP???
and what's the difference of a 2nd trimester vs a birth swap?
post #13 of 58
I'm up for it.
post #14 of 58
Hrm. Maybe we should hold on the birth beads until third trimester, actually, that would make the most sense.

Each bead is supposed to represent a good thought from each participant, and if we wear (or merely focus on) the string during labor, we'll have everyone's energy helping us. So, since it's a labor gift, may be best to wait a bit.

What would be a good 2nd trimester swap, though?
post #15 of 58
I too don't know what TP means....?

But I think this would be a rockin idea and would totally participate.
post #16 of 58
Count me in!
post #17 of 58
OOOOHH

tell me about a 2nd trimester swap....I want to do that too...

I have an unhealthy relationships with swaps....

I LOVE ME SOME SWAPS

-Lori, Jack and a Belly bean
post #18 of 58
I'd be in! I love swapping stuff!
post #19 of 58
TP= Trading Post.

Let's see-- the June '04 ddc did bracelets and beads; I was the volunteer for that. There were about 20 of us (maybe fewer?). Everyone sent me a) a bead and b) a bit of money for supplies for the bracelets and postage back and/or c) a SASE (padded). They all sent what they could manage, so while a few people sent, say, a SASE and $5, some others could only manage $1 or the SASE. I made friendship bracelets in deep reds and purples, the "Chinese Staircase" pattern, if you're familiar with such things; this was to represent an umbilical cord. The beads didn't fit on the braclets themselves, so I ended up stringing the beads separately on florist's wire and then wrapping the ends around the bracelets. They were adorable, if I do say so myself; I'll see if anyone from that group has pictures posted somewhere.

The April '06 group, we all sent beads to a central organizer who strung them on bracelets and sent them back to us in our SASEs (or maybe we PayPaled her? ). We also sent birth blessings/thoughts with our beads, which were then printed out some 18 times by the organizer and sent to all of us. There are a few April '06 mamas in this group who probably participated and have or can take pictures of them.

But yes, that's basically how it works-- we find an organizer, decide what we want to do, the organizer keeps a list and sets a final date for being added. At that point she tells us how many beads to send (one for each person on the list, including the organizer) and send her a SASE and/or money for postage and supplies (she'll need some kind of string to put the beads on, for example). It helps for the organizer to decide on what sort of string she'll be using, so we know how big the holes in the beads need to be (if you're not the sort who spends much time in art supply stores, you'll be astonished at the variety of sizes available .

I totally can't do it this time; I've got three little kids and barely have time to shower. I'm all in favor of helping in my own limited way... but the main roles will have to be played by another.

ETA: One more thing. I'm in agreement that this should probably wait until the late second trimester to begin, at the earliest. We want time to send and receive our bracelets before we're in labor, but at the same time... well, that's three or four more months for something to get lost , in my world.
post #20 of 58
I would like to do this too! Not certain of all of all the details!

I will keep checking posts!
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