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after two nights of ctx keeping me awake part of the night only to peter out around 6am. i was feeling hopeful yesterday when i had ctx all day that slowly got closer together and was losing chunks of jello like stuff sometimes tinged with blood. ctx were around 10 min apart in the evening and during dinner and a walk afterwards they were around 5 min apart. i really felt like things were happening, i called my mw and she thought so too. so we took the dog over to a friends house and called my mom to come pick up ds. after they left, i drank a glass of wine and went to bed (about 11:30) hoping to get a little sleep before things really started happening.

at 1am i woke up to a ctx. i lay in bed for the next hour waking for ctx and dozing in between. i had my back to the clock, so i didn't time them. at 2am i suddenly woke up completely thinking this hurts too much to lay down and i'm HUNGRY. so i got up and ate a snack and watched tv for an hour. during that time i noticed the ctx were certainly stronger and longer, but still 10 min apart. 10 min apart leaves way too much time for thinking. at 3am i figured i might as well go back to bed and try to get some more rest before things really kicked in. i drank a cup of rrl tea and did that.

for the rest of the night i slept fitfully, waking up repeatedly for ctx but then going back to sleep afterwards. woke up for real around 7am, so far this morning the ctx are 15 min apart i'd guess. they're still not real long, 20 sec maybe? but definitely not ignorable. WHAT IS GOING ON????? I want this labor to get going! I can't take this dragging on for days and days.

well, my mw is going to come by and check on me in a couple hours. hopefully a VE will give us a clue as to whats going on.
post #2 of 8
Ooh Vaquitita, good luck! I hope things pick up for you soon. It sounds as though things are really starting, just a little slow off the jump. I keep telling Baby to get ready to come this weekend, but I don't think (s)he is a very good listener.
post #3 of 8
Sounds like it's getting on your nerves and no wonder! Hope you settle into labour soon! (And me too!)
post #4 of 8
Not in your DDC, but had to reply because this sounds so much like my labor pattern. Slowwww to start and frustrating as hell (but also perfectly normal, but why can't I be the type to have labor just START and last a few hours and then kaboom baby???). Hang in there mama, it is so so so close. And from one who has recently been there, keep trying to do all you can to get rest, rest, rest.
post #5 of 8
This is what I am telling myself because I have had pretty strong BH contrax since Thursday. It can be pretty stinking frustrating. :


I have read lots of birth stories where the moms had this kind of thing happen; lots of mild-moderate contractions that don't seem to go anywhere. it turns out in a lot of the stories that baby *needed* that long slow start due to a cord issue (true knot, less than ideal fetal positioning that maybe constricts the cord during contrax, etc). So baby might not have tolerated a strong-many-hour-labor; maybe it needs a slow buildup,YK?

I am not trying to worry you. All the birth stories I gleaned this from had wonderful outcomes. It just makes me feel better to think that my body and baby might be doing this for a reason (other than making me crazy thinking each night is "the" night).

Hang in there mama. And do what pp have suggested. Rest lots and drink fluids.
post #6 of 8
I agree with Ashlee's verdict! It sounds like a lot of labors I've heard of with a posterior baby. Do you know the position of your baby?

If it's posterior, do a lot of hands and knees stuff to get that head around there, and talk to your midwife about other ways to get it to move.

If it's in the right position (back on left side), just do whatever you can to get that head moved down onto your cervix. Lots of squatting! If you have a birthing ball, try it. Also, my MW recommended walking down (but not back up!) a big hill. She said the downward movement of the hips will help the baby to get down into the pelvis.

This is probably all stuff that you're already doing... but I've gotta try to be helpful, because you sound like you're really getting sick of this!

Babies don't stay in forever though, so it'll happen. Just remember that.
post #7 of 8
Vaquitita, how are you?
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