DD is *mostly* vegitarian (she will eat chicken pieces every once in a while) and we have always been fairly honest with her. Actually, we sing the song from "friends":
The cow in the meadow goes moo
The cow in the meadow goes moo
Then the farmer hits him on the head
And that's how we get hamburger
She sings tons of versions
pig, pen, oink: bacon, sausage, pork chops
chicken, coop, cluck: nuggets (also, "then the farmer looks under its butt and thats how we get eggs").
an occasional verse of "then the farmer squeezes its nursies and thats how we get cows milk." Lately, shes been trying to come up with one for soy milk, lol.
We, personally, tell the truth because
1) we try to tell the truth to our kids
2) we don't want to give them impression it is a fact we are somehow ashamed of. if we felt it was morally wrong to kill animals to eat, we wouldn't eat them.
Kay