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post #1 of 76
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Well.... it has been a really really long couple of days for us.

You might have seen my other post about my town being flooded. It is REALLY bad right now. Most of where I live is under water.... including my husband's family business where he works and our in-laws home. We had boil advisories, power outages and water being turned off. Everything is closed or under water. We live in a little country town and the hospital I will deliver at is about 30 mins away. Almost all the roads to the hospital are closed. We had to go today for an appointment and it took us 2 hours and we had to go through water. Pretty scary.

Then... this afternoon my mother-in-law fell and broke her collar bone. She was the person that was going to help watch our son for the delivery. I feel terrible for her... I am not trying to complain... I just got over a broken arm, so I know that she is in terrible pain.

I just feel like sitting down and having a good cry. :

Okay... back to why I posted... please do not flame me... if you feel the need, please hold off I just can't take anymore right now.

I had my 38 week doctor's appointment today. Since I am high risk and we have had all this flooding/transportation problems I allowed him to to an internal exam. I am a good 2cm and 90% effaced (sp?). He talked to me a little bit about wanting to schedule an induction. I was very hesitant at first. He did tell me that he would like me to do it to better ensure that we have our baby during the day instead of the night. If there are problems with her since she is really the one that is high risk that the staff is better during the day than night. So we scheduled a 5:30 am appointment with the hospital for the 29th. However, I did tell him that I wanted more time to think about it and so I also kept my 39th week appointment for next Thursday. Honestly with everything going on around us and the "not" knowing if the roads will be open to the hospital, I just feel : !!!! My head hurts, I am SO tired and I really do not know what to do.

UPDATE

I have decided to go ahead with the inducement. My doula will be meeting me at the hospital early tomorrow morning. My doula, my husband and I feel that with the sistuation of the community and his job, and my 'high risk' status that we should go ahead with it. I am SO nervous. I am not a strong mama like most of you.... I tend to be a very anxious person.... and oh boy am I anxious right now! I want to enjoy this last day with 'just' my son, but I just can't relax and focus.
I just wanted to update this post.
Thank you
post #2 of 76
What a scary situation. I am so so sorry you are dealing with this right now. I'm very sorry about your dh's business and your mil as well.
I would just like to say that I am positive no one on this board is going to flame you. How could anybody say anything during this time that there is so much unknown? I think that if you can get some sleep tonight thinks might be a little clearer in the morning. I find that sleep always makes a diff. for me. I hope it helps you too. I can't say I understand what this situation is like cuz I don't, so I would never judge. If induction is best for the safety of you and your child at this point and time, then so be it. To me, these are the kind of circumstances that medical tech. is here for. I pray for you to find peace in whatever decision you make as well as for your family's wellbeing during this time.:
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no flames here, we all make the best decisions we can given our situations and knowledge. I hope you have a healthy and safe delivery..
post #5 of 76
I think it is great that you are keeping your options open. I hope that whatever decision you come to is one that you feel good about. I am so sorry you are going through so much right now. I can't imagine. You have to do the best you can under tough circumstances. Be gentle with yourself.
Wendi
post #6 of 76
I'm so sorry you are going through this mama. I was induced with my last baby (at 42 weeks) and his labor was painful but very quick. Trust yourself to do what is best for your baby, yourself, and your family and you will be happy and at peace with your decision.
post #7 of 76

Be kind to yourself, and like takebirthback suggested... sleep on it. You will make the best decision for you & your little one!

I really, really hope things start to get back to normal in your town & family very soon!!
Many hugs & blessings to you!
post #8 of 76
You'll make the best decision for you and your baby.
post #9 of 76
Everyone has said what I was going to say. Just sending hugs!
Take some relaxing baths, get your Dh to give you lots of backrubs and just trust that you will make the right decision.
post #10 of 76
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Originally Posted by mommajb View Post


no flames here, we all make the best decisions we can given our situations and knowledge. I hope you have a healthy and safe delivery..
Oh, mama! I agree 100%! We all do the best we can with the circumstances life hands to us. May you have much peace and wisdom as you contemplate your choices and prepare to welcome your newest little one. Many hugs!!
post #11 of 76
I was induced with my last babe because of low amniotic fluid. The induction started at 6 p.m. (with cervadil) and ended at 12:15 a.m. when she was born. I never needed pitocin. The contraction phase seemed a lot more intense- I think I was contracting at least every minute- but it was fast. Maybe not what I had envisioned for my labor, but I have a happy and healthy baby girl! Best wishes!!!
post #12 of 76
I can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through. You need to make the best decision for you and your baby and if that is induction then so be it. Sometimes induction is necessary and you need to do what is safest at this moment. It sounds like your daughter could be at risk if you had her during the night or didn't make it to the hospital so maybe the induction would be more beneficial then waiting it out. You always need to weigh the pros and cons of every medical decision so I am glad to hear you are keeping it open. I am so sorry to hear about your business and your MIL. What a horrible situation.
post #13 of 76
I'm sorry mama.. You have so much on your plate right now... I was attempted to be inducted w/ ds1, I was also high risk, and his placenta seemed to be failing.. At the time I made the decision to stop the induction, and left the hospital..

This may not be what you envisioned for your birth, but you have some outside circumstances, and being high risk, you need to make the best decision..

I hope you find strength and peace here!!!! We're with you..
post #14 of 76
Gosh, I don't think anyone here would flame you for this type of induction scenario. Natural disasters that compromise your ability to get to a hospital are certainly scary for any mom at the end of her pregnancy. I hope the floodwaters subside by next week.
post #15 of 76


peace and love to you for whatever you decide is best for you and babe. we're all here for support and sharing.

mnay blessings for a beautiful and wonderful birth.
post #16 of 76


I pray your decision making is easy and peaceful. No one can judge you for that!
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You have to do what is safest for you and your babe. And if attempting to get to the hospital in the middle of the night through floodwaters is not the safest thing, then maybe an induction is what's best. It might not be what you envisioned, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. And a healthy babe (and mom) is the most important thing.
post #19 of 76
Thread Starter 
THANK YOU for all the very encouraging posts!!! I also REALLY need the hugs right now! I didn't sleep much last night trying to figure this all out. This morning my husband I went for a long drive trying to find a water-free way to the hospital.... HURRAY we found one... as long as it doesn't rain any more we are good! Everything here is so crazy right now and still underwater. Right now I am trying to take each step at a time.

I REALLY appreciate all the wonderful and encouraging posts!!! I can't tell you how much they mean to me right now!
post #20 of 76
well then here's another

because you need it remember we all support you


(I really did want to use the little flame icon, just because I've never used it before)
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