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post #1 of 26
9/1/07 at 10:38am
Thread Starter 
It has been 3 weeks since I had a csection and I couldn't take it anyone and attacked DH last night. I have never done it so quick after giving birth, but it was fine, in fact it was some of the best sex I think I've ever had!
Anyone else jump back into the game yet?
post #2 of 26
9/1/07 at 11:18am
I wish. Its been 2.5 weeks and I'm still sore where I have stithes. Also really exhausted..
post #3 of 26
9/1/07 at 11:54am
*faint* No!!!
post #4 of 26
9/1/07 at 12:20pm
no way not yet!
post #5 of 26
9/1/07 at 12:26pm
want to but i am not going to until i get birth control. i am super fertile!!!
post #6 of 26
9/1/07 at 1:05pm
we dtd this morning. ds2 is 5 weeks old.
post #7 of 26
9/1/07 at 1:17pm
I wanted to in the hospital, lol. But, I had a c-section. While I feel great and am so in the mood, I am concerned about the stitches inside and they said 6 weeks, so I am going to wait at least another week. DS is almost 4 weeks. But, yes, totally ready.
post #8 of 26
9/1/07 at 1:37pm
Thread Starter 
I got back to normal super fast this time around. I had a csection too, but I was walking around the same day and felt completely normal by 1 week pp.
We are taking it slow, but I feel completely ready.
post #9 of 26
9/1/07 at 1:42pm
OMG NO!! Dh is all over me, though and it's making me crazy. I like the attention, but I wish it wasn't sexual in nature. I "satisfied" him a couple of days ago and hoped that would hold him over for a few days at least, but no such luck. I'm actually just really grossed out at the very thought of sex right now. And honestly, I don't know why dh thinks I need to provide him with anything so soon after baby. That's probably a crappy thing to say, but it's how I feel. I don't run around after him trying to get him to go down on me for my own satisfaction when he's not in the mood or otherwise unable to "perform." I wish he would just go rent a dirty movie or buy a magazine or something. Sheesh!
post #10 of 26
9/1/07 at 2:20pm
9 days pp and we're already talking about it.
post #11 of 26
9/1/07 at 2:50pm
nak

dh lost interest long about month 8. Still can't seem to catch his eye even though we are 4.5 wks out from a normal vag birth with minimal tearing.
post #12 of 26
9/1/07 at 3:53pm
nak

I've started thinking about it- 16 days pp here. I feel mostly back to normal 'down there'
post #13 of 26
9/1/07 at 4:58pm
I started to want to last week but haven't yet. I did buy some condoms so when ready we're prepared. As in another thread, I'm not sure everything is placed correctly in there... so I want to feel like it's returned to normal first. Nothing hurts but I guess I want to be careful.
post #14 of 26
9/1/07 at 5:11pm
3 weeks pp here and no thoughts about it whatsoever. It's one reason why I'm glad DH isn't here, not that he'd pressure me or anything. It's just one less thing I have to think about. I don't know when I'll ever be ready!
post #15 of 26
9/1/07 at 6:21pm
no way. the idea freaks me out. I'm always afraid it won't be enjoyable for dh... I'm worried about being all stretched out.
but mostly, I'm not in the mood and I can't imagine when we'd have the time!!
post #16 of 26
9/1/07 at 6:56pm
The thought crossed my mind (11 days pp here), but haven't acted on it yet!
post #17 of 26
9/1/07 at 9:58pm
Probably TMI, but...

Since DH and I have been together, we hadn't before gone a week between DTD. Even if we went 3 or 4 days, I would have an O in my sleep.

So, one week before the birth was the last time we DTD, and then because I had high BP and we were trying to fix it before the birth so I wouldn't have to go to the hospital, we decided to avoid doing anything sexual that might trigger labor.

A few hours before I went into labor, I had an O in my sleep.

Twice in the first week after the birth I had an O in my sleep. Now the baby is 3 weeks old and I haven't had any more.

I have been giving DH lots of oral sex, but I am definitely not ready for vaginal sex. When I feel down there, it is creepy.
post #18 of 26
9/1/07 at 11:16pm
Well, I've started thinking about it, which is wonderful since I wasn't at all interested until about...oh...7 MONTHS postpartum after my older daughter was born

But, even though there's interest, I had a second-degree tear and the stitches still pain me a bit at 3 weeks postpartum. Anyway, I think I'll be waiting until after my 6-week checkup.
post #19 of 26
9/2/07 at 9:42am
I'm 6.5 wk PP. Totally not interested.
post #20 of 26
9/2/07 at 10:51pm
no way! i'm 5 weeks out for a c-section and i dont even want to look at myself naked....let alone have anyone else see that!
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