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post #1 of 89
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DD is in fifth grade, and we are going to have to deal with the much dreaded DARE program this year. I've written a letter to the principal and will probably send it on Monday. I'd appreciate any feedback:



Our daughter, name, is in Fifth Grade this year, the year that the school district exposes children to the D.A.R.E program.

Regulations promulgated under a provision of The Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act, (20 USC 1232h, 34 CFR 98), provide that (where federal money is involved, and much is given to D.A.R.E.), "no student shall be required...to submit without prior consent to psychiatric...treatment." "Psychiatric treatment" is defined as:

"an activity involving the planned, systematic use of methods or techniques that are not directly related to academic instruction and that is designed to affect behavioral, emotional, or attitudinal characteristics of an individual or group."

D.A.R.E. falls squarely within that definition, in that it is expressly aimed at affecting behaviors, emotions, and attitudes of minors.

Please be aware that under no circumstances do we give permission for DD to attend the D.A.R.E program, or to attend marketing assemblies designed to sell the program to the children.

Frankly, we are astonished that the district participates in the D.A.R.E. program. D.A.R.E. has been shown in a multitude of studies to at best have no effect whatsoever on drug use, and at worst, to actually increase rates of drug use, particularly among suburban children. See, for example, the enclosed peer-reviewed scholarly article entitled, “Assessing the Effects of School-Based Drug Education: A Six-Year Multilevel Analysis of Project D.A.R.E.,” published in The Journal of Research in Crime and Delinquency.

In addition to being totally ineffective, the program has a significant opportunity cost associated with it. It wastes a great deal of contact time, when children could be focusing on academics. Police officers, although they might enjoy the time away from the demands of their real jobs, could actually be doing something to keep the community safer.

There are many drug awareness programs which are less expensive and less time consuming than D.A.R.E. These are taught by regular classroom teachers, trained educational professionals who must go through our state's strict credentialing process. If we believe that teachers should meet high academic standards in order to be effective educators, aren’t they the best people to be teaching our children?

By no means are we denigrating the work done by police officers. We believe that they have very difficult work to do, and largely do an excellent job. We would never suggest, though, that teachers should undertake a two week training course and then be sent out to solve crimes. Similarly, it makes little sense to take a police officer, give him or her 80 hours of training and expect teaching excellence to be the result.

Our school district justifiably prides itself on using evidence-based pedagogical approaches. If the school were using a mathematics curriculum that had been demonstrated time and time again to make no difference whatsoever on the children’s ability to do math, and could actually be detrimental, we doubt that the school would continue to support that curriculum. Should drug awareness really be any different?

Finally, we expect that the school will take any necessary steps to ensure that DD is not subject to harassment or ridicule from other students, teachers, staff or D.A.R.E. personnel because we are exercising our parental rights in keeping her out of the program.


Comments?
post #2 of 89
I think you did a great job. It looks wonderful. By the way, I am an English major.
post #3 of 89
That was a very well written, well researched, well thought out letter.

This is just a thought here. You may want to start out with a short letter just stating that you know that the DARE program is coming up and you don't give your daughter to participate in the DARE program. If the school starts to give you a hard time then I would get out that letter and supporting evidence and present to the principal.

I know you have presented me with enough information to not want my son to participate in that program!!!! Hopefully by the time he hits that age they will have a program that actually works.
post #4 of 89
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Originally Posted by Zach'smom View Post
That was a very well written, well researched, well thought out letter.

This is just a thought here. You may want to start out with a short letter just stating that you know that the DARE program is coming up and you don't give your daughter to participate in the DARE program. If the school starts to give you a hard time then I would get out that letter and supporting evidence and present to the principal.
Thanks for the comments. I really appreciate hearing them.

I had thought of that, but I really do think the school administration should start to rethink this whole thing. Or at least occasionally be reminded that what they are doing is pointless. For the most part, I love this district and I think they could do better on this. DARE is a big, fat, expensive waste of time. Rah, rah, rah, blah, blah, blah. People think it's good because they are "doing something."

Every time we get a note home telling us about the evils of scheduling the occasional doctor's appointment during school hours because class contact hours are so precious, I think of the time they waste on DARE, and my blood pressure goes up another 10 points!
post #5 of 89
I don't know about DARE yet, but your letter is well written, and I do think you need to send the whole thing.
post #6 of 89
GAH I can't believe they're still doing that damned program. There were studies already published SEVEN YEARS AGO, when I was doing my senior project for high school, that proved the ineffectiveness of dare. One of the major pot dealers at my school would wear his dare shirt on days he had deliveries come in. The administrators never caught on : I think your letter is VERY well-written, if a bit long, and I hope it's not ignored.
post #7 of 89
I like it and think you should send it as is.

Laura
post #8 of 89
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One of the major pot dealers at my school would wear his dare shirt on days he had deliveries come in. The administrators never caught on :
That's hillarious.
post #9 of 89
The only thing I would change is to move the statement that you're keeping your daughter out to the very first paragraph--just so the reader knows the purpose of the letter from the start.
post #10 of 89
Yup, I would agree, great letter. I would also suggest moving the sentence about keeping DD out of the program to the beginning--"This letter is to inform you that DD will not be attending the DARE program..."

Good for you for standing up to this.
post #11 of 89
I would leave out the part about psychiatric treatment. Although I see your point, school officials may think this part is a real stretch and may reduce the credibility of the letter in their eyes. I think it stands well enough without that section, just by demonstrating that research has shown it to be an ineffective program.
post #12 of 89
Nice job. The only part I'd change is:

"Police officers, although they might enjoy the time away from the demands of their real jobs, could actually be doing something to keep the community safer."

I think this IS part of their real job, and they probably think they are keeping the community safer. A lot of the criticism of DARE has been kept pretty quiet; there are probably still lost of people who think it's a great program.

In fact, I know that's true. I'm a teacher, and this came up at our staff meeting this week. The 6th graders are supposed to do it and we were talking about scheduling. I did some quick Googling to look up the anti-DARE research I knew about and tried to talk everyone out of doing it. I think it might have worked! But they were all shacked by what I was telling them. Also, I don't think it gets much $ from the feds because of the ineffectiveness. There was something about that in the wikipedia article on it.
post #13 of 89
Personally, I'd just send a letter stating your dd isn't to participate and submit the longer letter if necessary. My thought for this is if I were on the receiving end of the letter- you're the parent. If you don't want your child to participate in something from school, that's your business, not mine. Whatever your reasons are- they're YOU'RE reasons and you have the right to your opinion. I may or may not agree with it, but I'm not there to pass judgement and whether it's all the reasons you listed or you just don't like the color of the shirts they're going to be wearing- it makes no difference to me. I don't want to belittle the opinions, it's just not my business.
post #14 of 89
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I would leave out the part about psychiatric treatment. Although I see your point, school officials may think this part is a real stretch and may reduce the credibility of the letter in their eyes. I think it stands well enough without that section, just by demonstrating that research has shown it to be an ineffective program.
DARE is supposed to have an opt-in permission system only (that is, they cannot give your child DARE unless you affirmatively give permision). It is that way legally precisely because it is considered psychiatric treatment under the laws cited.

However, most schools don't do this, or if they do it, they do it very shabbily. The permission form is generally on the first page of the DARE workbook, and nobody ever checks to see if it is signed. So, lots of kids end up getting DARE illegally. I think it's important that the administration is made aware of that.
post #15 of 89
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Nice job. The only part I'd change is:

"Police officers, although they might enjoy the time away from the demands of their real jobs, could actually be doing something to keep the community safer."
I think I'll change it to say

"Police officers, although they might enjoy the time away from the demands of law enforcement, ..."
post #16 of 89
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I think I'll change it to say

"Police officers, although they might enjoy the time away from the demands of law enforcement, ..."
I'd skip that altogether. As much as you'd like to dig them, your main point isn't that you think POs are lazy, or are avoiding real law enforcement duties , just that you do not think DARE is effective. I think it's more important to get that point out. You might consider (and ok if you don't) not insulting the people who think they are helping kids, as they might miss your main point about the reseach on DARE.

Just mo.
post #17 of 89
wow. thats great. i swear i want to copy that so i can save it for if my kid ever goes to public school. thanks for sharing.
post #18 of 89
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I'd skip that altogether. As much as you'd like to dig them, your main point isn't that you think POs are lazy, or are avoiding real law enforcement duties , just that you do not think DARE is effective. I think it's more important to get that point out. You might consider (and ok if you don't) not insulting the people who think they are helping kids, as they might miss your main point about the reseach on DARE.

Just mo.
Well, one of my genuine problems with DARE is that taxpayer funds are squandered by having police officers doing this completely ineffective program. Police officers do like DARE because it is much easier duty for them than doing law enforcement, and the police go to unbelievable lengths to continue the program.

They will sometimes actually target families who speak out against DARE, so I am sort of putting myself out there a bit on this, but I'm willing to do it. The police often assume that the only reason people don't like the program is because they are druggies, which is certainly not true in my case.
post #19 of 89
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Well, one of my genuine problems with DARE is that taxpayer funds are squandered by having police officers doing this completely ineffective program. Police officers do like DARE because it is much easier duty for them than doing law enforcement, and the police go to unbelievable lengths to continue the program.

They will sometimes actually target families who speak out against DARE, so I am sort of putting myself out there a bit on this, but I'm willing to do it. The police often assume that the only reason people don't like the program is because they are druggies, which is certainly not true in my case.
If you think they can hear it, say it.
post #20 of 89
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In addition to being totally ineffective, the program has a significant opportunity cost associated with it. It wastes a great deal of contact time, when children could be focusing on academics. There is also an opportunity cost in regards to community safety in removing police from law enforcement duties to have them spending time teaching the DARE program.
Is this any better?
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