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post #141 of 1191
I am so very sorry, Sunny. I don't even know what to say. I gasped out loud when I read your post.
post #142 of 1191
I know there are no words that will change what has happened or what you are going through. Just know that the inner beauty, the strength, the amazing core of you that drew your husband to you in the first place is still there and will help get you through this. Don't think too much, take whatever help is offered and ask for more.
post #143 of 1191
OMG I am so so sorry. Damn I have no words. You and your kids are in my thoughts.
post #144 of 1191
I am so so sorry mama
post #145 of 1191
I am so sorry for your loss
post #146 of 1191
I am so, so sorry.
post #147 of 1191
I'm so sorry, mama. Hugs and more hugs for you and your little ones.

post #148 of 1191
I too gasped out loud when I read your post. Oh God, no......

As angry as I am at dh right now, I will go give him a hug and tell him that I love him....

I shake my head even contemplating your horrific reality. Oh Mama, I am so sorry that your husband and daddy to your children is no longer earthside. I pray that you feel his presence in everything that you do and that you gain strength from the years of love that you two shared.

And I pray for peace for you, your children and all those affected by his death. Sincerely
post #149 of 1191
Oh mama, I am so sorry. You have a hundred invisible arms holding you right now. please find strength in yourself and family.
post #150 of 1191
Thread Starter 
The words of support really help. Thanks everyone.

This is extra hard because it was homicide. So, totally unexpected. I am without words to describe our devastation. I don't want to deal with the press. And the kids can't understand why anyone would take their father... Maybe just for his bike--it's the only thing he had on him worth taking. Maybe he was just in the wrong place at the wrong time.
post #151 of 1191
I am so so sorry.
post #152 of 1191
Oh, that is so shocking and sad.

You get through this by grieving. Grieve with your children, make sure they are included. Include your family and friends. Remember your husband with fondless and love. I am so sorry
post #153 of 1191
post #154 of 1191
Let us know what we can do for you. I am so sorry. What a nightmare
post #155 of 1191
have a family friend deal with the press, someone you trust. you have so much to deal with just with your grief the last thing you need is nosey newspaper ppl.

you have my deepest sympathies for you loss. :
post #156 of 1191
had to send more hugs.

really if you need anything please know there are many here who will help you.
post #157 of 1191
I am so so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts.
post #158 of 1191
Oh my Momma....I don't even know what to say....I am sooooooo sorry for you and your dc.....love & light for your dh s for you & dc
post #159 of 1191
I am so sorry... you and your kids are in my prayers.
post #160 of 1191
Oh, goodness! How utterly horrific! : I'm so, so sorry for you guys right now.
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