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Need advice in Singapore

post #1 of 9
Thread Starter 
My 3-year-old (nearly 4) is unvaccinated and started pre-school at an international school in Singapore last year. I was asked to produce a vaccination schedule for him and told the truth -- that my husband and I did not believe in vaccinations -- and was told by the school nurse to write a letter to that effect and also saying that we would accept responsibility if he got ill while at school. I did so, and to cut a long story short, it turns out the school did not have any policy on vax and after our case came to light, they then set a policy -- ie, requiring all children to have the two compulsory ones required by Singapore law, and a few more besides. They have told me I either have to have him vaccinated or get an exemption letter from the Health Ministry in Singapore or he can't attend the school anymore. Someone in the government told me they will give me an exemption letter if I can get a registered doctor to say that vaccinating my son would be harmful to his health. They said they would accept such a letter from a doctor here in Singapore or from one overseas. Does anyone have any suggestions -- are there any doctors out there who could give me this kind of letter without seeing my son? For reasons I won't go into here, I would rather keep him at this school than find him another one (and possibly go through the same elsewhere). Vaccinating him is totally out of the question. Sorry if this seemns rambling -- it's late and I need to sleep!
post #2 of 9
Sorry I don't know any doctors for you,but would think most would not sign a letter anyway.If I were in your situation I guess I would just homeschool and find out of school playgroups to attend for socilization purposes. I too,would not vaccinate if it came down to it.Good luck in your search!
Sara
post #3 of 9
I'm so sorry to hear this Silk. So unfair for you to have to go through this. He is your son and it should be your choice without all this crap. Can you find any groups in Singapore that support not vaccinating? And yahoo chat groups there or any other forums? Search the web and keep investigating. You need to find like minded people in Singapore and then you will find leads or loopholes that others there have used in regards to schooling. I hope you can find a solution to keep your son in school. Good luck~
post #4 of 9
I think I would start here:

there is a number and email next to Jane.

http://lllsg.tripod.com/


I'd start with this group and see if they can find you a doctor there whom you can work with on this vax issue.
post #5 of 9
Thread Starter 
Thanks.

Trabot, I am a member of LLL in Singapore -- have to admit that I haven't been to a meeting for a while though. I did bring up the issue at the end of last year at a meeting and didn't get very far. Actually, last night after I posted my thread, I emailed Vicki, the other LLL leader here. She said she would ask around and get back to me.

I'm not very hopeful of getting a Singapore doctor to support me -- even if any were to agree in principal it would be hard for them to openly oppose government policy. I had hoped i could get in touch with one overseas.

Thanks again
post #6 of 9
this might be odd.....
but do you think there is something in flying to New Zealand and finding a doctor there... I bet hilary might turn you on to a doctor.

hmmmm
post #7 of 9
Thread Starter 
Thanks Trabot ... I will follow it up.
post #8 of 9
well, I thought it might be worth a shot....

I was wrong... I'll see if I can come up with another thought, silk....





thought hilary does make a point about pushing the point with the school.
post #9 of 9
Thread Starter 
Thanks for your suggestions Hilary -- I am trying to find a dr elsewhere, not in Singapore. My husband happens to be overseas at the moment and he's pursuing the issue from there.

I had thought about the legal route but our situation is a bit complicated (I won't go into details here) -- basically, my son is at an international school in Singapore, but we don't pay, unlike other parents at the school, and I suppose that doesn't give us any grounds for making demands.

Trabot, thanks again for sparing your time with this issue.
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