Originally Posted by Mtnmumma
I understand its better to include ds in pics. I am working real hard on forgiveness, cause thats the only way things will get better. Sometimes I feel that the stepmom is trying to wedge my relationship w/ds. In our last custody hearing, she wrote a 45 page affidivit about what a wonderful mother she is and how miserable I have made her life. It cuts deep to know that my x and her feel that they are more fit because they have a complete family and it would make things easier for them if I was completely out of the picture.
Wow, I never thought I would find someone in a similar situation as ours. Do not let this person into your life at all. She is poison and doesn't deserve to be given a second thought.
As far as the pictures issue, I think it's a personal matter. I have pictures of my dss up on my blog but I rarely make them public. I'm proud of all my kids and like to share pictures with family and friends. My dssm put a picture of her and dss on her dating site and although I had a big issue with this I felt it wasn't my place to advise her on the dangers of advertising that she is a single mother to a beautiful son.