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post #21 of 310
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: we should plan an mdc single mamas get-together!
I'm in the Bay Area too!!!!
post #22 of 310
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just another stalker wanting to see what goes down.

see if you can get some photos from Italy, like if he posts them somewhere or emails them to a cousin who like you.
post #23 of 310
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this is the upside to crap like this!
I just want to say I'm glad you got some good advice and he was foolish enough to give you ammo.

You deserve better.
post #24 of 310
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P.S. I miss being able to leave messages on your blog...
if my blog stalker stops reading (and i'd imagine he's getting bored) i'll reinstate the comments feature. i miss it too! :

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see if you can get some photos from Italy, like if he posts them somewhere or emails them to a cousin who like you.
he was dumb enough to call from his hotel to my cell phone today. i looked up the number. i know he's in florence and i even know which hotel.
post #25 of 310
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he was dumb enough to call from his hotel to my cell phone today. i looked up the number. i know he's in florence and i even know which hotel.
I hope the hurt wears off quickly and you can move forward to pity.


you just have to kind of

: at him.

The next call his attorney gets from your attorney should be interesting.
post #26 of 310
Oh, I soooo hope you can nail his butt!
He is either too confident he can't get caught on his lies about $$$ OR just plain missing some screws!
Does he really believe he can get away with all this BS?

I am looking forward to day I read how the judge has made him pay everything he owes!!: Then no more trips to Florence, or nose jobs for girlfriends!
post #27 of 310
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if my blog stalker stops reading (and i'd imagine he's getting bored) i'll reinstate the comments feature. i miss it too! :



he was dumb enough to call from his hotel to my cell phone today. i looked up the number. i know he's in florence and i even know which hotel.
ugh.
but, that just screws him even more since he can't say he was on a bargain trip staying in hostels...
post #28 of 310
hi celeste,
i've been internet stalking you for months now! i remember reading the entire "i'm so scared' thread one night while my DH was out of town, and i've been following your blog ever since. i've got you bookmarked in safari in my 'friends' folder, because i love your writing and wish we could be!

if i might be so bold as to offer a tiny insight...it might help at some point to deeply reflect on this whole italy thing. i think you can't really overlook the fact that r is trying to take your soul to war with this particular action.

many years ago, my 'soul mate' dumped me and brought his Ow into the restaurant where i worked at the time for her birthday. and i had to WAIT ON THEM. (it wasn't the only restaurant in town, just like italy isn't the only country in the world). i won that battle (and the entire soul war) though, because i kept my cool, and he eventually had to walk out, cause he couldn't take it.

i think r is totally challenging you. think 'warrior' because now is when you're going to war with him. if not in court (but it looks like that's working out well), at least on some unexplicable level.
post #29 of 310
Wow.
He is in it deep now.
Sick that lawyer on him good.
Hugs to you,
post #30 of 310
Hey Celeste,

Another one who is not single here to offer support! It seems like you're handling everything in your life so well - even the shut down of your Not So Scared thread. Thankfully, your children can depend on you!! Too bad we can't say that about r.

I hope when he gets back from his "honeymoon" trip he gets quite a surprise from the legal gods. I'll be reading your blog and just saying my comments outloud.

Your actions are right on target, even if sometimes your mind and emotions are feeling otherwise. You can do it!

mamak
post #31 of 310
OMG! OMG! OMG

$200 A NIGHT??????????????????? And that's what he gave his own children to live on for a whole freaking month??? Talk about "don't worry, I won't let you guys down"

Celeste, is there any way for those papers to be ready BEFORE he gets back? It would be FANTASTIC if he was greeted with a little surprise when he came home!

You are so resourceful finding the hotel by looking up the phone number!!
Make sure to keep the caller ID record!!
Oh, and I would love to see the website of this place, if you can send me a PM! What a genius this guy is!

EDITED TO ADD:
Does he have any idea you know where he is?
post #32 of 310
un-effin-believable!! Yay for caller ID!!!

Wonder what his logic is...how can he possibly justify this????

I am so sorry if you are hurting over this.

I know you do, but keep Karma in mind!
post #33 of 310
I am so sorry that he is such a raging %^&*&#@ %^$*%$#@, ad nauseum. But I am glad that he is dumb enough to not bother to cover his tracks. That makes your lawyers job waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyy easier.
post #34 of 310
C, saw your blog update about him coming home today. Just a note to remind you (in case you forgot ) how strong and amazing and wonderful and awesome you are. And Bob is right... now is the time to allow him to reap what he has sown. Sending you strength, calm and clarity.
post #35 of 310
OMG! Can I PM you and call him names? I am livid on your behalf. Effing Italy???

Seriously, you're close to me, if you ever need anything lemme know.
post #36 of 310
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see if you can get some photos from Italy, like if he posts them somewhere or emails them to a cousin who like you.
doubtful, i saw his parents this past sunday and i don't think they even know where he was...or with who. he's cut everyone out of his life, his old life. but i do have the incoming calls!

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Does he really believe he can get away with all this BS?
that's what has me confused too. i think he really does. i think he thinks i'm going to just roll over and take it forever. ha!

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if i might be so bold as to offer a tiny insight...it might help at some point to deeply reflect on this whole italy thing. i think you can't really overlook the fact that r is trying to take your soul to war with this particular action.

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i think r is totally challenging you. think 'warrior' because now is when you're going to war with him. if not in court (but it looks like that's working out well), at least on some unexplicable level.
this is spot on. i know when he comes back (still haven't heard from him) he's going to be pissed when i won't engage with him. it takes a lot for me not to get into with him but i'm done with that part of this. he can't bleed me dry anymore! ta-da!

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Does he have any idea you know where he is?
i don't think so.

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Wonder what his logic is...how can he possibly justify this????
he justifies it by telling himself that i've made him unhappy for many years and that now he is entitled to some happiness. *barf*

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OMG! Can I PM you and call him names? I am livid on your behalf. Effing Italy???
PLEASE DO! seriously!

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C, saw your blog update about him coming home today. Just a note to remind you (in case you forgot ) how strong and amazing and wonderful and awesome you are. And Bob is right... now is the time to allow him to reap what he has sown. Sending you strength, calm and clarity.
thank you...
post #37 of 310
I wonder if he brought the kids anything nice from his trip.
post #38 of 310
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I wonder if he brought the kids anything nice from his trip.
Kids? What kids?


He sure doesn't act like he has any. :
post #39 of 310
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Kids? What kids?


He sure doesn't act like he has any. :
I know. I was trying to find the appropriate sarcastic smiley, but couldn't and didn't want it to be misinterpreted.
post #40 of 310
I definitely understood your tone !
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