Withdrawl has always worked for us. But if you for sure do not want to get pg yet then I would use something. Dh and I can't stand condoms. We feel that since we are married there shouldn't be anything between us during lovemaking. I will not take hormonal bc again because I took it for 7 years and don't want to put anything in my body like that again. Since I'm pg with #2 at this time we aren't having to worry about getting pg and Dh is doing to have a vasectomy in the next couple of months. To us there really wasn't a great form of bc to use after having a baby so I know the place that you are in. But an unplanned pg can be very hard if you or your partner aren't ready to have a baby. Best of luck to you!
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9/23/07 at 12:24pm