No, they are not stupid, but like any student they zone out, they compress the info in their head, they take inadequate notes, they store items that are more important to them than others. In short, they are not experts in the field. I'm not at all implying to "dumb it down" or anything of the sort, I certainly don't, but I am very careful not to throw absolutes out there.
Women internalize what we say to them. Even if they misconstrue it. For example, in a video I show, it mentions that transition labor can be anywhere from 20 minutes to 3 hours. A client internalized that transition was 20 mins and THAT'S ALL she would hear. No matter what I said, no matter what the midwife said to her, that's what she heard. (Funnily, when her labor got here, she kept waiting for transition, saying things like, "I don't want to do transition! Take me home!" when she was in transition. She kept waiting for it to "get bad."
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Does this make sense? I think being a little cautious what we say, especially about complications and prevention of such can go a long way to ensuring a mama feels like she's not at fault for the outcome. In the case of pre-e, she almost certainly isn't.
Women internalize what we say to them. Even if they misconstrue it. For example, in a video I show, it mentions that transition labor can be anywhere from 20 minutes to 3 hours. A client internalized that transition was 20 mins and THAT'S ALL she would hear. No matter what I said, no matter what the midwife said to her, that's what she heard. (Funnily, when her labor got here, she kept waiting for transition, saying things like, "I don't want to do transition! Take me home!" when she was in transition. She kept waiting for it to "get bad."
)Does this make sense? I think being a little cautious what we say, especially about complications and prevention of such can go a long way to ensuring a mama feels like she's not at fault for the outcome. In the case of pre-e, she almost certainly isn't.








That being said, some women prefer having guidelines so it seems to help them make better choices, If it works for them and it helps them be proactive (like Pam said) than great. For myself, I always have to have some kind of eating plan that I follow, because I personally feel more comfortable with some kind of structure to it, but I know thats just who I am :0)

! Its important to understand new research on this because I see a lot of bad practice in the hospital and I want to be able to question treatment or lack of. For example chronic HTN really seems to through people off. Also in normal pregnancy systolic blood pressure shouldn't change much and diastolic gradually decreases 10-15 mm Hg over first trimester and then gradually increases to nonpregnant baseline values at term. So, it isn't true that BP should go up in pregnancy is should go down and then to normal baseline.

