I hope it's okay for a non-birth-professional to post a question here. If not, sorry! I'm curious whether a mom (okay, me) who had a shoulder dystocia with her first baby is more likely to have it again with a second baby.
In case it helps, here's the "brief" synopsis of my daughter's birth (okay, I lied, it's not brief, but it could have been longer):
1:00 am Nov 14th: water broke, contractions started 10-15 minutes later and were fairly strong within the first hour.
I also threw up for the first time within the first 2 hours of labor and kept throwing up the entire time. By 10am-noon (??) or so, I was dilated to about 5-6 and my ctx suddenly got less frequent (went from every 2-3 mins or so, to a brief period of totally unpredictably random intervals that I mistakenly hoped was transition--hah, then backed off to every 8 mins or so).
My mw was worried that I was getting dehydrated because of throwing up so much and not keeping any liquids down. So she started an IV and said things should pick up soon.
No dice--Exam showed that baby was posterior--mw tried turning the baby by putting her hand up inside me (ouch!). We did this twice several hours apart, but no turning and still ctx are far apart.
I got out of tub, tried walking, shower, nipple stimulation, lots of stuff, but ctx still would not come faster.
Finally at 1am the next day, I start worrying about infection (lots of vag exams, water broken long time) and am scared anyway. We decide to go to hospital for pain relief, pitocin, and abx.
After getting to the hospital, Nubain for pain relief was the only time fetal heart rate went down (I didn't like it either--felt suffocated) and went on O2. Not relaxing, so next tried epithecal shot (around 9am?). Bliss. I was finally able to nap, and during nap, baby turned anterior, and dropped, and I dilated to all but a lip.
Started pushing at 1:00 or so, baby was born at 5:10. Head came out (after small? episiotomy) and then "she stopped as though she had hit a wall" as my mom put it. MW and Labor nurse jumped up and pushed down just above my pubic bone and doctor started rocking my pelvis back and forth (I think he was grabbing baby's arm or something?) and I remember the following exchange very clearly: they were saying "PushPushPushPushPush" Me: "But I'm not having a ctx right now." Them: "That's okay, this is the part where you push without a contraction." Fortunately I had no idea what was going on (beyond--"Huh, I don't remember this part in the birth videos")! And she came out pretty quickly I think (30-90 seconds after the hullabaloo and jumping on my belly??? My mom said it seemed like "ages" and baby's face looked blue), but this was her first time at a vaginal birth.
And my daughter was (and is) totally healthy, great apgars, beautiful
, and I got to hold her after just a couple of minutes, and nurse, and everything was bliss. Oh, and she weighed in at 10lbs 7oz (don't know how much that was inflated by IV fluid and pitocin).
SO (gosh, I haven't written this out before...), since then I've learned a lot about shoulder dystocia (that would be "a lot" compared to the "nothing" I knew before) and it's really scary!!! I'm not pregnant now, but do hope to have another sometime--and I REALLY want to have the next one at home if at all possible. But I'm scared about having the shoulder dystocia again. Do y'all have thoughts??
Thanks, and again, sorry if this is posted in the wrong place.
Carlyle
In case it helps, here's the "brief" synopsis of my daughter's birth (okay, I lied, it's not brief, but it could have been longer):
1:00 am Nov 14th: water broke, contractions started 10-15 minutes later and were fairly strong within the first hour.
I also threw up for the first time within the first 2 hours of labor and kept throwing up the entire time. By 10am-noon (??) or so, I was dilated to about 5-6 and my ctx suddenly got less frequent (went from every 2-3 mins or so, to a brief period of totally unpredictably random intervals that I mistakenly hoped was transition--hah, then backed off to every 8 mins or so).
My mw was worried that I was getting dehydrated because of throwing up so much and not keeping any liquids down. So she started an IV and said things should pick up soon.
No dice--Exam showed that baby was posterior--mw tried turning the baby by putting her hand up inside me (ouch!). We did this twice several hours apart, but no turning and still ctx are far apart.
I got out of tub, tried walking, shower, nipple stimulation, lots of stuff, but ctx still would not come faster.
Finally at 1am the next day, I start worrying about infection (lots of vag exams, water broken long time) and am scared anyway. We decide to go to hospital for pain relief, pitocin, and abx.
After getting to the hospital, Nubain for pain relief was the only time fetal heart rate went down (I didn't like it either--felt suffocated) and went on O2. Not relaxing, so next tried epithecal shot (around 9am?). Bliss. I was finally able to nap, and during nap, baby turned anterior, and dropped, and I dilated to all but a lip.
Started pushing at 1:00 or so, baby was born at 5:10. Head came out (after small? episiotomy) and then "she stopped as though she had hit a wall" as my mom put it. MW and Labor nurse jumped up and pushed down just above my pubic bone and doctor started rocking my pelvis back and forth (I think he was grabbing baby's arm or something?) and I remember the following exchange very clearly: they were saying "PushPushPushPushPush" Me: "But I'm not having a ctx right now." Them: "That's okay, this is the part where you push without a contraction." Fortunately I had no idea what was going on (beyond--"Huh, I don't remember this part in the birth videos")! And she came out pretty quickly I think (30-90 seconds after the hullabaloo and jumping on my belly??? My mom said it seemed like "ages" and baby's face looked blue), but this was her first time at a vaginal birth.
And my daughter was (and is) totally healthy, great apgars, beautiful
, and I got to hold her after just a couple of minutes, and nurse, and everything was bliss. Oh, and she weighed in at 10lbs 7oz (don't know how much that was inflated by IV fluid and pitocin).SO (gosh, I haven't written this out before...), since then I've learned a lot about shoulder dystocia (that would be "a lot" compared to the "nothing" I knew before) and it's really scary!!! I'm not pregnant now, but do hope to have another sometime--and I REALLY want to have the next one at home if at all possible. But I'm scared about having the shoulder dystocia again. Do y'all have thoughts??
Thanks, and again, sorry if this is posted in the wrong place.
Carlyle








