I am pregnant with my fifth child and am planning to birth at a freestanding birth center. The midwives there encourage siblings to be present, so my husband and I are considering having my daughters (ages 7, 5, and 4) there for the birth. The problem is that we do not have anyone who would be particularly suited to serve as a support person for them during labor and delivery.
Would it be odd to hire a doula to act as a support person for my children rather than for myself? Is that outside the scope of a doula's practice? Or would it just depend on the individual doula?
Also, does anyone have any thoughts on having children present for birth? Do you thing 7, 5, and 4 are appropriate ages to witness birth? How soon would I have to hire somebody if I should choose to do that? (My due date is February 27th.)
Thanks in advance for your help.
Would it be odd to hire a doula to act as a support person for my children rather than for myself? Is that outside the scope of a doula's practice? Or would it just depend on the individual doula?
Also, does anyone have any thoughts on having children present for birth? Do you thing 7, 5, and 4 are appropriate ages to witness birth? How soon would I have to hire somebody if I should choose to do that? (My due date is February 27th.)
Thanks in advance for your help.






