Maybe I've been reading too much about birth lately but I am curious about the issue of breaking the waters. I had this done in both of my two kids' births, once with a midwife, once with an OB, both in a hospital. The first one (with a CNM) was after a long amt of pushing w/o my urge to push (another matter altogether that I am not happy about, IYKWIM) and I was "stuck" at 9.5 cm; the second was when I had an urgent desire to push but the waters hadn't broken.
I don't know quite what my question is, I guess -- for the first one, I tried pushing for an extra hour because I had it in my head that I didn't want an intervention, and wanted to let things progress naturally; after that, though, I was getting tired so I agreed to have her break them.
Is it necessary? Is it a good idea when you are ready to push but the waters haven't broken yet?
If someone could give me some general thoughts on this, I'd appreciate the opportunity to put my mind at ease and / or develop a deeper understanding of this issue in case of future births.
Thank you.
I don't know quite what my question is, I guess -- for the first one, I tried pushing for an extra hour because I had it in my head that I didn't want an intervention, and wanted to let things progress naturally; after that, though, I was getting tired so I agreed to have her break them.
Is it necessary? Is it a good idea when you are ready to push but the waters haven't broken yet?
If someone could give me some general thoughts on this, I'd appreciate the opportunity to put my mind at ease and / or develop a deeper understanding of this issue in case of future births.
Thank you.








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I've been soaked a few times from a pushing momma whose water breaks.