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post #61 of 113
tls, i don't think your words would be considered discouraging to either myself or kaje! both of us seem to want to hold our little ones in for a time yet.. but wouldn't it be ironic if we went before the rest of the eager mamas? :

i hope you can get more comfortable.. i often wonder if my birth experience will be the opposite of my first (which was very fast and dramatic, kind of frightening). wonder how likely that is?

welcome, juliem! you are going to be my role model for the next few days as i try to wrap up all these loose ends around here. you seem to be very ready! that's how i need to be too!

wooby, i've been exhausted too.. gah, it seems like my nesting instinct is waning. the drive is there, but my body doesn't want to keep up. and i keep having cravings for fatty foods. ugh. which is definately NOT helping.

okay, i have a question: for about a week now i've been having occasional (like 5 times a day..) sharp pains, sort of cramp like, but brief, in my vaginal area.. hard to tell where, exactly.. does anyone know what this could be? i was diagnosed with a mild UTI last friday, tho i exhibit no symptoms other than trace blood cells in my urine.. could it be that? or baby's head? or my cervix?
post #62 of 113
Hey everyone,

I've also been having loose stools, and lots of discharge...like you, does it mean anything? Then, last night, I woke up 5 times, thinking I was in labour, I'd go to the washroom, then fall back asleep. Today, I'm having lots of tightening, but that's about it. I also think I'll be going passed my due date today, as everyone, including me, thought I'd go early. Guess it's up to the stars...will I have a Leo, or a Virgo???
Anyway, Wooby, I did not make it thru the movie, fell asleep too!!! I"m so tired. And my house is a mess, and I can't be bothered. I keep thinking if I go into labour, I'll be embarassed to have everyone over: ...So, my plan is to do some cleaning while in labour...to keep me busy...then I'll call everyone over...hee hee.
Anyway, off for a nap. I'll check in later.

Mamasoleil
post #63 of 113
Mamabeard, we cross posted...
The pain in your vagina, might well be the baby's head pushing down. I couldn't walk for close to two wks, now the pain is off and on...so not sure what to make of it...

Good luck,
Mamasoleil
post #64 of 113
juicy lucy, i have no idea what a posterior cervix is, but i think i may have something similar going on.. several years ago, i was told my cervix was angled oddly. perhaps i'm posterior as well.
post #65 of 113
thanks, mamasoleil! i should say, tho, that baby hasn't descended yet, and there seems to be no correlation between any movement (baby's) and this pain.. it doesn't feel like the baby is pushing down causing it..

i'm like you, too.. i'd be very embarrassed if i went into labour today! so my plan is that i will be deep cleaning ALL day!

i'm 37 weeks today! no hospital birth for me!!
post #66 of 113
Hello all......I have not been gone, just lurking only lately. Congratulations for newborn babies here!!! It's wonderful it has started.
I decided not to obsess myself with my baby being born early any more b/c it makes me crazy to think about it all the time. So whenever it's gonna come it will come...and my mom might make it after all, who knows! I just hope I won't get into labor the day I need to drive to pick her up at the airport - that would be problem!
I've seen my MW on Tusday - left little disapointed. I don't know if it was me or her - some of us was radiating very bad vibes and I could not wait to be out of there. No other comments....
I have been feeling quite fine, but the sleeping!!! I do NOT sleep any more then an hour in a row. My baby has not even dropped yet, and I have been using bathroom even more then every hour!! How annoying is that? My dog kept walking anxiously all night in living room back and forth - we have hard wood floors and his long nails making that sound on that floor - I thought I was gonna kill him!!! He just would not lie down and sleep!!
I don't even feel like nesting any more....so I think i still have plenty of time! Gave up cooking as well, my mom said she was gonna do all the cooking when she comes!! Yahoo!!!
I have not seen her for 2 years and can't wait for her fantastic cooking!! So now I really hope Sebastian will wait for her to be born. That makes it 23 more days..........it's not that bad when I really think about it.
Sounds like I'll be hearing a lot of birth stories until then!!
OK, I'll go back to my boredom and being tired
I'll be around though, lurking...........
Good luck to all of you ladies!! I am thinking of you!
post #67 of 113
Mamabeard,

CONGRATULATIONS on making it to 37 weeks! You are going to get your homebirth! Now you can relax...

Would you describe your pains as vaginal shooting pains? Brief but somewhat intense? I have those, too and heard they are simply from all the pressure down below and from everything getting nice and loose. Must be a good thing, though it doesn't feel so good!:

Mamasoleil,
I think house cleaning is a super labor project! You can do it to get your mind off of early labor and you can do just as much as you feel like doing. Also, that means you can forget about it for now! Yippee!

Pavlina,
Sounds like you are going to be well taken care of when Sebastian arrives! I totally believe in mothering-the-mother postpartum! All you should focus on at that point is breastfeeding and sleeping. It is great that your mom is coming!
post #68 of 113

Due Date check in

I was wondering how many August mamas there are left (can't believe so many of us became July mamas! ) and what our due dates are. Did I miss anyone?


Lucky Momma-Aug. 6
Juliem-Aug. 6
TLS-early Aug.
Kaje62-Aug. 8
Mavis-Aug. 9
Sharon-Aug. 13
Annais-Aug. 15
JuicyLucy-Aug. 15
Mamasoleil-Aug. 15
Tnrsmom-Aug. 17
Kate42-Aug. 17
Pavlina-Aug. 24
Mamabeard-Aug. 23
Dreamweaver-Aug. 24
Chanley-Aug. 29
Wooby- Aug. 31


Wow! I am going to have lots of great birth stories to boost my late Aug. labor!
post #69 of 113
Mamasoleil due date August 15th.

I'm 38 wks tomorrow, more pg than I was when I had Soleil!!! This weekend there is a huge festival here in my town, with an Airshow...I got VIP passes for the airshow, and we're thinking maybe the loud noises might do something....: Who knows though.
Pavlina~I hear you about the dog roaming at night..I put my dogs in the basement last night, they were driving me crazy...my youngest, Luna, gets up with me everytime I get up, and follows me so closely I'm scared I'll trip on her..she's very sweet, and just thinks that everything I do is SO interesting...even just peeing...:LOL
I know the longer he's inside, the better. Guess I'm just more anxious than I realized to meet this little guy...I can't wait to see what he looks like. Soleil hopes he looks like her, she has gorgeous curly red hair, and beautiful blue eyes..with a spec of brown in them. But dh and I both have brown eyes, not sure what the odds are of having another blue eyed child...as for the hair, I am a redhead, and dh was red as a child...(he's bald now.) So, what are the odds? I think a redhead boy would be so cute!!!
Ah, I just can't wait to hold him, and feed him!!!
When Soleil was born, my mom came and stayed with us for two wks, she cooked, and cleaned, and all I had to do was care for my new babe, it was absolutely amazing!!! Pavlina, you will love it! I know I'll have a lot of support again, but it'll be different. and dh works out of town..so I won't have him, he is amazing at parenting!!!!
My friend wants me to ask for a membrane sweep, but I would rather my labour starts on its own, besides, I"m not yet 40 wks pg!!!!
Pavlina, I hear you about trying not to obsess...and being bored...and having no energy...isn't it funny how I was big time nesting, now the energy is gone??? I still want it clean..but as someone said, my body just isn't cooperating..
Anyway, keep on keepin on!!!

Mamasoleil
post #70 of 113
Quote:
Originally posted by Wooby
Mamabeard,

CONGRATULATIONS on making it to 37 weeks! You are going to get your homebirth! Now you can relax...

Would you describe your pains as vaginal shooting pains? Brief but somewhat intense? I have those, too and heard they are simply from all the pressure down below and from everything getting nice and loose. Must be a good thing, though it doesn't feel so good!:
thanks, wooby! 'cept i can't really relax cuz i still have so much to do around here. i figure if i spend a couple of days cleaning like mad, then i can spend the next days/weeks relaxing. i have 2 books i'd really like to tackle before my brain becomes total mush.. heh.

the pains are pretty much as you describe them. not fun, tho i'm not really concerned for some reason..

my due date is aug. 23rd.


pavlina- i am so jealous that you are going to be so pampered after birth! lucky lady!!
post #71 of 113
mamasoleil- we keep doing that!

isn't it fun to muse about all the possible characteristics of baby? i wonder a lot, too, since the father is very fair with freckles, and i am not. my son is also very fair, and has reddish blonde hair while i have dark brown hair. oh, the endless possiblilities! plus, i don't know if i'm having a boy or a girl, so the surprise of it will be even greater!
post #72 of 113
mamabeard, I am envious that you don't know the sex. I didn't want to now, but it was obvious on the ultrasound (DH saw the cojones apparently, and the doc confirmed it.. I was so mad!!). So another boy it is. I cried for about two days after I found out, as I always wanetd a girl- however if they hadn't told me, and I could have just found out when the baby was born, it wouldn't have mattered because I would have fallen in love with him and the sex would have been meaningless, KWIM?

Ok, going off on a tangent here!!!
post #73 of 113
I'm here too. I have just been really busy and doing more moderating than posting lately. My actual EDD is the 17th. I am guessing I will go right around then. I am in no hurry though. Still getting stuff ready for the homebirth. I cleaned out all of my dressers and closets today. Got rid of all the cold weather maternity clothes and 2 garbage bags full of stuff for donations. I only have about 2 pairs of shorts and 5 t-shirts that I actually wear now anyway. A little bit of nesting I guess. I want my bedroom ready by this weekend. I am having my Blessingway on Sunday and still have not done my bellycasting yet. I guess I better get going, huh?
post #74 of 113
Mamasoile - red hair boy would be so cute!!! I am red hair and my DH is half Mexican - so I have NO idea what genes are more dominant. I think he's gonna be after him - dark and curly hair. I think girl would be red hair, maybe next time
Yep, I can't wait for my mom - she is going to stay 5 weeks!!! I am so glad she's normal and don't have to worry about fighting with her! She's my best friend, so we are gonna have lots of fun and lots of photos - she's great photographer
It is August tomorrow!!!!!!!! 24th does not seem that far away after all.......
post #75 of 113
I'm pale and blonde and my husband is filipino - heavy on the hispanic heritage. We spend SO much time talking about what our baby might look like! Our biggest joke right now is that the kid is doomed in the hair department. John's family all has premature grey and my dad started losing his hair in college. So the kid will either be bald or grey or both! What have we done!

Mamabeard, I asked my midwives yesterday about strange short shooting pains that I've been feeling. I was guessing that they are probably my bladder or cervix. They said cervix from what I described. I mostly feel it when the baby is wiggling. My baby had dropped...think you said your's hasn't...so maybe it's different.

I can't believe tomorrow is August!!! In some ways, that does make it easier to kick back and just wait because it feels so much closer.
post #76 of 113
Wooby,

according to your count, there's 14 of us! Wow.... if disregarding the due dates, we are expecting an average of one birth every 2-3 days!!!!

I noticed according to your compilation our due dates tend to clump together, hmph.... interesting.

oh, btw, mine is either 24th or 27th. The latter was based on LMP, and former was based on 20-week ultrasound. Guess it depends on baby... : who knows???

urgh, I am not nesting very hard either, and we shd be expecting some visitors this weekend!!! Guess I'll just be embarassed to my death!!

Keep well, everyone, August comes fast!!!
post #77 of 113
Wooby, you forgot me Due on the 15th of August...I've been lurking the last couple of weeks, not posting, feeling very anti-social. But now I feel left out of all the fun!

Anyway, Congrats to birdwomyn and nostrow! Wahoo!

I found out today that I am GBS+, blah: Otherwise, everything is going great. Except I'm tired, and cleaning like a mad woman, and a little grumpy at times..but that's not unusual, I guess.
I wonder who will be next!
post #78 of 113
Hey mamas!!

Congrats to the new babies!!!! We are beginning to all go, I wonder if we are all gonna be headin to the life with a newborn forum for more August Babies threads. Hehe!!LaLa (another mod here) was due on the same day as me with our firstborns and it has been a real treat to see how they grow up in relation to eachother.

I feel so BIG!!! I have a meeting tomorrow morning and my baby shower this Sat. I have ONE dress to wear to both. Hopefully nobody will be at both. Hehe!! My tevas are the only shoes that still fit my fat feet, so a nice dress and sandals. Good thing I have always been the weird one.

I feel like I am gonna be pregnant forever. But since I have a kid already, I KNOW what an impact an infant makes on time spent alone. So I am not overly anxious and trying to savour the last few nights of peace and quiet after my 2.75 year old goes to bed. We have her b-day party planned a month early so I dont have to deal with toddlers AND a newborn on her bday (which is 3 weeks after my due date). I am praying I dont go into labor when I have invited a few families and a TON of lilliputs over for cake and sorbet!

Alright, I need to go clean up and find out WHY my daughter is playing so quietly. Used to be, she would make noise and I would go running. Now if she is NOT making noise, I go running. The times they are a changing!
post #79 of 113
juicylucy, aww.. i know exactly what you mean. i secretly want a girl, and sort of feel like it's a girl (tho i'm not certain, like i was with my son), so i know that either way i'll be excited; if it's a boy it will be a surprise and therefore equally as special as if it's a girl. that sucks that your ultrasound guy told you. but i'm sure you will fall in love with your boy when he comes!

does any body else who's having their second (or 3rd.. etc) child feel like it's even MORE exciting and special this time around? i'm not sure what it is, but as a first time expecting mama i didn't really know what it would be like, and the infinate possiblities of the baby's personality, etc.. now that i already have one, i'm so excited to see the differences, the similarities, and to imagine future interactions between both of them.. does anyone else feel that way?
post #80 of 113
Wow! We have 16 mamas! Annais and Tnrsmom, thanks for correcting me! I knew I had missed a couple of us...:

It IS SO EXCITING that tomorrow is August! Yippee! We are definately in the homestretch now! I think Dreamweaver is right, we should have births every few days starting soon!

Mamabeard,
I know what you mean. The anticipation of having a newborn is somewhat more special this time around because I know what an absolutely magical and surreal time it is. I just didnt know how wonderfully intense it was going to be with my first; precious daughter...

So funny, I got a call from a charity today wanting to pick up clothes, etc. on Monday. Super timing! Goes right along with me dejunking and organizing. I know what I will be working on this weekend... I have to work on cleaning, cooking, organizing in little baby steps now. I am so so tired by the end of the day. Every little task takes twice as long....:
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