Is Your Baby-Daddy Circ'd? - Page 6

[kathy1_10]

My dh is cut (high & tight ) My ds is intact!!!

[Microsoap]

Originally Posted by ejcmassage

Well I thought it was funny. DH is Baby daddy just like my tiny diamond necklace is my bling bling.

They just call it bling now. "Bling bling" is a couple years ago.

I want an intact man, but of course, I wouldn't take it out on him if he didn't have any choice in the matter.

[graceomalley]

Ick, I hate babydaddy too.

He's circumcised, unfortunately. Intact sex is something I really miss.

[pilesoflaundry]

dh is circ'd. The odd thing about it is at one point in conversation it came up that his father is NOT. So why he was done I don't know.

My brother is and is pretty pissed about it.

[Mama Poot]

My DH is intact and so are all of the men in his very Irish family. Circ is just NOT done. I feel bad for guys who are cut. All the guys I dated in high school were cut, except for 1 and I only know this because he told me ( I think he was worried about what I'd think. But it never got far enough for me to even see what it looked like. I didnt know what a normal penis looked like until I met DH. Isn't that sad? )

[Sharlla]

DH is circed and he's annoyed about it. I have only dated one intact man. I love Baby-daddy, I think it's cute.

[AimeeandBrian]

Mine is circumcized. He is very hurt and angry about it.

[blizzard_babe]

DH is circ'ed, and got quite grumpy when he found out that having not been circ'd would have made sex even better.

[bluegrassgirl]

My dad, brother and my fianc'e are all circumcised, because when they were born, it was common to do this for cleanliness reasons (little was known about the side effects later on in life).

I honestly have never seen an intact penis, except in health or sex advice books. Though, if I have a son in the future, both me and my fianc'e are not going to get him circumcised.

Jessie
(single mommy to Emma, 4 years and Angela, 2 years)

[2crazykids]

My DH is INTACT!!! I love every inch of it! TMI?

I had a bunch of other partners 1 of whom was a Native American from Alaska and he was intact. The rest were circed...and not so good in the sack if IRC...:

[Rosie_Kate]

My DH is circ'd, but he doesn't seem to care (at least he's never said anything, but he hasn't done the research about it, either). I kinda wish he weren't (and his Mom told me she regrets it, but didn't know any better at the time) but I wouldn't tell him that.

DS is not, and I like to think that someday his future wife will thank me.

P.S.-- I like "baby-daddy" cuz it's funny!

[Hoping4sumBBdust]

I am sooooo happy I am preggers with a girl, because DH would want to circ even though he isnt ::

I was soooo sure we were having a boy, but the 20weeks u/s said girl, and i felt so relieved because for the first 20 weeks, I was trying to show him article after article, videos of actual circ's.

Here is the kicker..... not only is he intact (and i swear i tell him how much better it is all the time!) he is from Europe He was born & raised in Hungary, and moved to the US at 17. In Hungary, its almost unheard of to circ, and he has the stupidest reasons for WANTING too...... social acceptance in America. ::

I dont know if anything was ever said to him, or why he is so self counsious about it. He knoes that I eventually win all fights, and will win this one too when the time comes, :but its still kind of aggravating.

So, how do you beat that one? An intact adult male from Europe wanting to circ for social reasons. It honestly makes me sick to my tummy!

Oh, and I call him my babydaddy all the time! But its ok, cause we're young. Oh, and when I first saw his intact penis, I thought it was hideous..... :but his was the first uncirced one I saw...... a few weeks later, I was happy he's intact!!!!!

[stacey0402]

I've never been with a man who wasn't circ'd. Dh is very happy with our decision to leave ds intact

[Papai]

Originally Posted by Hoping4sumBBdust

I am sooooo happy I am preggers with a girl, because DH would want to circ even though he isnt ::

I was soooo sure we were having a boy, but the 20weeks u/s said girl, and i felt so relieved because for the first 20 weeks, I was trying to show him article after article, videos of actual circ's.

Here is the kicker..... not only is he intact (and i swear i tell him how much better it is all the time!) he is from Europe He was born & raised in Hungary, and moved to the US at 17. In Hungary, its almost unheard of to circ, and he has the stupidest reasons for WANTING too...... social acceptance in America. ::

I dont know if anything was ever said to him, or why he is so self counsious about it. He knoes that I eventually win all fights, and will win this one too when the time comes, :but its still kind of aggravating.

So, how do you beat that one? An intact adult male from Europe wanting to circ for social reasons. It honestly makes me sick to my tummy!

Oh, and I call him my babydaddy all the time! But its ok, cause we're young. Oh, and when I first saw his intact penis, I thought it was hideous..... :but his was the first uncirced one I saw...... a few weeks later, I was happy he's intact!!!!!

I'm dumbfounded.

The next time he brings it up, I would say, "If circumcision is such an important part of social acceptance in America for you, let's sign you up and get you on the chopping block."

Seriously, that makes NO sense.

[Hoping4sumBBdust]

Originally Posted by Papai

I'm dumbfounded.

The next time he brings it up, I would say, "If circumcision is such an important part of social acceptance in America for you, let's sign you up and get you on the chopping block."

Seriously, that makes NO sense.

Never thought about a comeback to say to him, but that really just made my day. Now, I have something to go back at him with, and will surely win......

Again..... when the time comes...... for now..... the belly resident is a girl!

[Papai]

Originally Posted by Hoping4sumBBdust

Never thought about a comeback to say to him, but that really just made my day. Now, I have something to go back at him with, and will surely win......

Again..... when the time comes...... for now..... the belly resident is a girl!

Your post reallly made me think: The majority of intact men have NO idea how good they have it.

They're happy and fine being intact, but so many men have no idea what role the foreskin plays in their sex lives. I know I didn't, until I started reading anti-circ stuff. I just thought circ was a "snip" or "not snip" thing and figured the foreskin wasn't a bad thing, but it wasn't a life or death thing. Now that I know better however.....

[fruitful womb]

My dh is partly circ'd. When he wanted our ds1 circumcised he thought there was only ONE way to do it. To us at the time, ALL circs were the same. Then later after finding out there were numerous ways to perform a circ and different outcomes of the procedure, DH had the nerves to say, "We'll make sure our next ds will have mine kind of circ." HELL NO!!! I stuck to my guns this time. I had done the research and now have enough of a backbone to spread the word. Guess what I did, (Probably for another thread but not looking for much praise right now) I handed a teenager a nocirc card, talked to her for at least 30min. This was at my gym. And yesterday I handed a pregnant first time lady expecting a boy at the bank a nocirc card! Cool huh! My DH is as much of a pro-GI activist as I am!!!

[thefragile7393]

DH is, also he wasn't at birth but he was a little older, not sure how much older. Originally his parents didn't want him circ'ed but then some complications developed and I know that his mom didn't have any experience in caring for an intact penis...so off it came! I swear my next boy will not be circ'ed...sadly ds is.

[UberMama]

I've never been with an intact man either. Wish I had been, being I'd love to know the differences (you know what I mean).

DH is of course circ'd. As MIL says, she thought they had to be done back then.

[mrskennedy]

DH is circ'ed and wishes he weren't. It was no trouble getting him to agree to a non-circ'ed DS, b/c he wishes MIL wouldn't have circ'ed him and let him make the decision on his own. He wouldn't have chosen it if he'd had a say in it.