Chesapeake, I'm so, so sorry. I had a miscarriage on my wedding day, last December 15th, and another immediately afterwards on March 16th. The worst part for me was, I started to bleed right after we got home from our ceremony. We were sitting next to the tree and drinking cocoa. My second miscarriage, my husband and I went to our 10 week ultrasound (you know, to see the heartbeat).....and nothing. I had no symptoms of a miscarriage (actually, my ms had just started). I felt so betrayed by my body. I wanted to wait to mc naturally, but the nausea just kept increasing, and when I started to throw up, I called my doc and told her to schedule the D&C because I wasn't going to be THAT sick for no reason.
That one ended up being a partial molar, which means instead of a healthy placenta, a mass of invasive cysts grows. It has to be monitored very closely, my hCG levels had to be watched to make sure they went down normally, or it could have turned into a form of cancer.
Sweetie, if you need someone to talk to, please feel free to PM me. I hate the beginnings of the DDCs....I grieve with every mama who loses her baby.