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post #21 of 107
I'm apalled to read what they did to you; to your family; and to her!! What the h*ll is wrong with them!!?? They can't just take a child to spite someone! It's not about YOU, it's about HER. They've got their heads on backwards. Keep fighting....she needs you!
post #22 of 107

My heart aches for that little girl and you!
post #23 of 107
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Originally Posted by Blu Razzberri View Post
They can't just take a child to spite someone!

Yeah they can, and they do. There's a reason we quit fostering.
post #24 of 107
Thread Starter 
You guys all have it right! I am working and trying hard to get her back. The crying is hard, the grief is torture. you ladies are wonderful Your support is valuable to me. Thanks for helping and please keep it coming. The foster care industry is wrought with egos and unethical people. What about the babies?
post #25 of 107
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Originally Posted by momtomany View Post
You guys all have it right! I am working and trying hard to get her back. The crying is hard, the grief is torture. you ladies are wonderful Your support is valuable to me. Thanks for helping and please keep it coming. The foster care industry is wrought with egos and unethical people. What about the babies?
hey mama
If you have homeopathic Ignatia on hand, take one dose of 30C at bedtime and one 12 hours later. That should help you through your grieving process. "hugs"
post #26 of 107
You are such a strong mama. I hope she's back in your arms very soon
post #27 of 107
I hope you get to see your sweet girl again soon
post #28 of 107
Thread Starter 
The level one hearing is Oct 25th, 2 months after we have lost her and we have not seen her. If we fail at this level we go to the commishioner. I need my baby back. I hate this system and yet am dependent on them for children. I am supposed to act like a woman without a brain when I am with them. Instead of like her Mamma.
post #29 of 107
I'm so sorry, mama.

I'm praying that things will turn out well for you.
post #30 of 107
(((HUGS))) I was thinking about you and wondered how the hearing went?
post #31 of 107
Thread Starter 
I lost a long post as computer pooped. Hearing was okay I guess, I am not doing okay. I do not know how to live in this world of abuse and dishonesty, I didn;t learn as a child and I don't know now. They said we would have a decision by Nov 8th, dream of color and of hope please. Let this community be my life for now as I am past the ability to have one myself. I am ill and worn. I may leave the older children without a mother due to all of this and my inability to understand the world and THE evils of OTHER mothers WHO COULD MAKE BETTER CHOICES like us. I am unwell. I need color and warmth.
post #32 of 107
Huge Huge hugs to you mama!

First of all, why would they take her away when she is attached to someone? That is so horrible. She has a mama to love her, why take her away from that?

Secondly, fight like h*ll mama! She needs to be with you.

I will hold you and your DD in prayer. Sending strength, love and healing your way!

Take care

Keep us posted.
post #33 of 107
A warm hug for you.
post #34 of 107
Thread Starter 
It's long, and silly and horrid and someday I will tell you all what a horrid mom I am and why they took her from me and you may laugh or cry. One reason is she was comforted by Mcdoalds and Burger king and that habit stopped, the puffiness left her face. Though we are vegetarians she ate plenty of meat at friend's places. I am worn, I am ill, and death is calling me.
post #35 of 107


If death is calling you, if it finds you, then your daughter will never be able to find you herself...be strong.
post #36 of 107
Wishing you and yours peace.

Tell death it is not your time.

Hugs mama.
post #37 of 107
Thread Starter 
I just need a mother myself. I want a mother to come make me tea and climb into bed with me and snuggle. I am so destroyed.
post #38 of 107
Keep swimming. There is always hope
post #39 of 107
Thread Starter 
gumby, you must know me,in my heart I am swimming. To you all, I am feeling more well and able to receive your blessings. My computer space bar is sticky, sorry. long story, not my computer. I believe in the power of prayer or community strength in the universe. Please keep dreaming for my 7 year old baby and our family. My soul hurts less today.
post #40 of 107
Thread Starter 
Please do my vigil with me. Please keep me feeling mothered and please keep the messages going to our great spirit and the power of community.I don't want to be alone.
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