dear baby

[mama_daba]

dear baby
please do not come tomorrow. feel free to come today or tuesday but please not on monday. monday is my moms birthday andmy mom has already said silly thinks like that you are her baby and she has silly ideas like that she will get to spend time with you and if you come tomorrow she may get even sillier ideas in her head and really she is not a very nice person and it is better for everyone if you spend as little time around her as possible. i know she is technically your grandmother but i have lots of other friends who will be happy to be a grandmother to you and can do it in a good healthy way and i think you will like them a whole lot more. and baby if you do come tomorrow it will be ok i know you will come when you are ready and that you know nothing of birthdays or grandmothers yet. i will not be disappointed if you come tomorrow because i am looking forward to holding you so much it is just that you mama is getting worried about the scary things her mama recently said on the phone and is also maybe gettin a little crazy from hormones and tings.
i love you lots baby
-your mama

[Dea]

that was cute. Mine is due on my MILs birthday, which I would not like. It's like the area around her due date is a battle ground with MILs birthday and Valentines. I assume I will be writing a very similar letter.
I hope you have the birth you imagined, and not on the day you don't want!

[HarperRose]

OH boy.

I didn't find out till years later that my grandmother has an issue w/ the fact that other ppl in the family got married around her wedding anniversary. (An aunt married on the 20th, dh and I on the 23rd, Grandma's is on the 31st.)

But then Grandma, as much as I love her, has some serious issues and holds grudges for YEARS and has a completely skewed idea of ppl in general.

Like, since my parents home schooled me for high school, I don't really have an education and I "got lucky" when I got married because now dh can take care of me. :

So yeah, she just has issues in general.

The whole date or month belonging to one person thing bugs me.:

[mittendrin]

Ok, baby, so come out either now or in two days the soonest. You heard your mama...!

[Dena]

Ok, baby, you heard mama - come on out today or get comfy for a couple of days!!

[candyapplez]

moonfroggy's baby-
If you really want to come tomorrow my baby Bryce can take your place. It's my BF's daughter's b-day tomorrow and my neighbor's but I'm ok with that so hang in there and let my lil guy take your place that way it will be somebody's b-day. :