I'm just so pissed off at my husband atm... I was due yesterday, and am very overweight on top of being pregnant and having a lot of trouble getting up and down. Yet for some reason, because he helped me out the day before yesterday (and then did stuff outside all day yesterday - which is great and looks beautiful but didnt help me very much) he seems to think he can sit at the computer all day today (except during his football game of course) and turn his back to DD and just let her do whatever, and let me get up and down 400 times in order to keep her out of things. It takes me twice as long if not longer (which is a hazard if she's eating something she shouldn't or climbing something dangerous etc) and it physically hurts me to get up and down (my hips are doing some sort of wierd out of socket kind of thing)
He just STORMED into the bedroom with DD because she asked to go to bed. She generally asks to go in there when she needs a change of scenery and needs to decompress or needs attention. I had just told him 5 minutes before that if he wanted to play on the computer to please let me know and I'd take DD into the bedroom so I could watch her (our bedroom is devoid of things she can get into so I can just sit on the bed and generally don't have to get up and down - it was set up that way on purpose so that she would not have distractions going to sleep) He didnt even look up from his video game to answer me.
I just dont get it. How can a very sweet and loving husband turn into such a #$$%^&* randomly when he feels like "he" deserves to sit uninterrupted??? He said the reason he was mad was because "every time I try to sit and concentrate on this I get interrupted". Earlier today he threw a temper tantrum about this and I took DD into the bedroom and STAYED THERE for like 4 hours. So now he starts it again...grrr...
I worry about this stuff so much because we had problems with him thinking he deserved "uninterrupted not being bothered time" when DD was first born and because he would just ignore her when she was wet or cried or whatever, I would have to get up and deal with it every time, to the point that I was at my wits end. With a baby due any day now, I have a horrible feeling this will happen again. I've never hated the computer because its how we met, and we both enjoy playing, but right now there's nothing I want to do more than take a hammer to his laptop.
Sorry to rant. I'm just in tears atm sitting here while he is in the bedroom w/ our daughter, hoping he's not being a jerk to her because he thinks he shouldn't have to be in there with her. He acts like such a baby sometimes... sigh
I should say that over all he's a decent guy, except when he gets into his moods, and he's not abusive or anything, just being a baby. I keep thinking maybe if I wasnt a SAHM I would not feel so much like its unfair that he expects private time at home after getting so much time away from the kids during the day, when I can go literally weeks or months without ever being "off duty" (even at night generally I am the one that gets up with the kids since he works and we don't ever leave the kids w/ anyone).
He just STORMED into the bedroom with DD because she asked to go to bed. She generally asks to go in there when she needs a change of scenery and needs to decompress or needs attention. I had just told him 5 minutes before that if he wanted to play on the computer to please let me know and I'd take DD into the bedroom so I could watch her (our bedroom is devoid of things she can get into so I can just sit on the bed and generally don't have to get up and down - it was set up that way on purpose so that she would not have distractions going to sleep) He didnt even look up from his video game to answer me.
I just dont get it. How can a very sweet and loving husband turn into such a #$$%^&* randomly when he feels like "he" deserves to sit uninterrupted??? He said the reason he was mad was because "every time I try to sit and concentrate on this I get interrupted". Earlier today he threw a temper tantrum about this and I took DD into the bedroom and STAYED THERE for like 4 hours. So now he starts it again...grrr...
I worry about this stuff so much because we had problems with him thinking he deserved "uninterrupted not being bothered time" when DD was first born and because he would just ignore her when she was wet or cried or whatever, I would have to get up and deal with it every time, to the point that I was at my wits end. With a baby due any day now, I have a horrible feeling this will happen again. I've never hated the computer because its how we met, and we both enjoy playing, but right now there's nothing I want to do more than take a hammer to his laptop.
Sorry to rant. I'm just in tears atm sitting here while he is in the bedroom w/ our daughter, hoping he's not being a jerk to her because he thinks he shouldn't have to be in there with her. He acts like such a baby sometimes... sigh
I should say that over all he's a decent guy, except when he gets into his moods, and he's not abusive or anything, just being a baby. I keep thinking maybe if I wasnt a SAHM I would not feel so much like its unfair that he expects private time at home after getting so much time away from the kids during the day, when I can go literally weeks or months without ever being "off duty" (even at night generally I am the one that gets up with the kids since he works and we don't ever leave the kids w/ anyone).
) But anyways he cleaned up and inflated/filled the pool and everything.
