does this sound mean?!?! - Page 2

[2bluefish]

Sounds nice to me...

The questions are ridiculous. MIL asked "so does your midwife do a vaginal exam to see where you are at?" Nope, we're just waiting (never mind I don't need my midwife for that, I check myself). Mom "any more contractions?" Yep, I get contractions all the time - just my normal stuff though, nothing to get excited about. Sister calls up and says nothing just an expectant pause and then "no baby yet?" LOL, no, I would have called you if I had the baby. Even dh who has been so patient, finally broke down and asked "when are you going to have the baby?" and "Why do we have to go to a prenatal tomorrow?" Well, I think it's a waste of time too, but that's just the way it's done - we have to keep going every week until I have the baby. Thankfully so far we haven't had enough questions to need an email though. Do what you've got to do I say!

[Dena]

Originally Posted by mamabearsoblessed

I have certain people dropping by for 'playdates' unannounced. Its awful they'll ring the bell over and over and then call from the front porch while peeking in the windows!! WTF!!!??

WTF is right! Aw, geez, I am sorry Mama. How rude!

Can you email them all and tell them if they want their kids to play with yours, you will be happy to drop off your kids at their house?

I am with you, I don't answer the door anymore either unless I am expecting someone.

[Thandiwe]

Originally Posted by mamabearsoblessed

I'm seriously withrawing as I'm getting closer to birthing this baby and I have certain people dropping by for 'playdates' unannounced. Its awful they'll ring the bell over and over and then call from the front porch while peeking in the windows!! WTF!!!??

Ooh!! That would seriously piss me off. I'd be inclined to walk around the house and pretend like I didn't see/hear them.

[mamabearsoblessed]

YUP!!!! and last week they stopped by with their DOGS!!!! yes plural!!! to play with my dog!! And a kid too.
When I didn't answer the door or the phone they came around to the back door, inside the gate, into the back yard hollering for me at the back door!!! WTF!!!!!! LEAVE ME THE F$%&*K alone!!!!!! Take a flippin hint! I pretended they woke me and they didn't give a sh*t. Wanted to stay for lunch!!!!!!!!!!!
Then I saw this same person at school one day and they said they wanted to play and I told them "I'm nesting and don't want to get together.' I'LL let YOU know if we wanna get together and he's like 'oh, I'll just keep bugging you until we get together' and I looked at him all bitchy and said "No. Don't. I'll get all hateful. Even (dh) knows better and leaves me alone" (I threw that in for good measure). :. Jeez!! Freakin people.

Oh OP~~~ I'm sooooo sorry I hijacked your thread. It has totally been eating at me too.

[crazydiamond]

Originally Posted by mamabearsoblessed

YUP!!!! and last week they stopped by with their DOGS!!!! yes plural!!! to play with my dog!! And a kid too.
When I didn't answer the door or the phone they came around to the back door, inside the gate, into the back yard hollering for me at the back door!!! WTF!!!!!! LEAVE ME THE F$%&*K alone!!!!!! Take a flippin hint! I pretended they woke me and they didn't give a sh*t. Wanted to stay for lunch!!!!!!!!!!!
Then I saw this same person at school one day and they said they wanted to play and I told them "I'm nesting and don't want to get together.' I'LL let YOU know if we wanna get together and he's like 'oh, I'll just keep bugging you until we get together' and I looked at him all bitchy and said "No. Don't. I'll get all hateful. Even (dh) knows better and leaves me alone" (I threw that in for good measure). :. Jeez!! Freakin people.

Oh OP~~~ I'm sooooo sorry I hijacked your thread. It has totally been eating at me too.

Yikes!

I'd tell this oh-so-gracious person that he a) trespassed on private property and b) he's harassing you. I'd make the point by telling him that if he chooses to take part in illegal activity, you'd have no choice but to report him to the authorities.

All little overboard, perhaps, but it sounds like this guy really doesn't get it. AT ALL.

[Steady101]

I don't think it sounds mean at all.

[wildgarden]

Originally Posted by mamabearsoblessed

YUP!!!! and last week they stopped by with their DOGS!!!! yes plural!!! to play with my dog!! And a kid too.
When I didn't answer the door or the phone they came around to the back door, inside the gate, into the back yard hollering for me at the back door!!! WTF!!!!!! LEAVE ME THE F$%&*K alone!!!!!! Take a flippin hint! I pretended they woke me and they didn't give a sh*t. Wanted to stay for lunch!!!!!!!!!!!
Then I saw this same person at school one day and they said they wanted to play and I told them "I'm nesting and don't want to get together.' I'LL let YOU know if we wanna get together and he's like 'oh, I'll just keep bugging you until we get together' and I looked at him all bitchy and said "No. Don't. I'll get all hateful. Even (dh) knows better and leaves me alone" (I threw that in for good measure). :. Jeez!! Freakin people.

Oh OP~~~ I'm sooooo sorry I hijacked your thread. It has totally been eating at me too.

Yikes! That makes my situations seem like butter. Sorry you are dealing with that.

I haven't responded to any of the angry/upset replies. I don't have time for that crap. Actually I have a lot of time right now, but I don't want to deal with the drama. I have to say though, it has made me more anxious about having this baby. I am now about 5 days past EDD. Throughout this pregnancy I have been ahppy to let what happens happen, but I don't want to deal with anymore drama...it is making me a bit anxious. I guess things could be a lot worse though...thanks for reminding me!!

[gypsyfaery]

Nothing mean in there...Sounds perfectly fine!