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My trip to labor and delivery

post #1 of 25
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So I go to my appointment yesterday and while I am there the Dr. tells me I need to check into the hospital becuase I am spilling some protein in my urine. She wants to be sure this is not the start of preclamspia.

So I get to the hospital, they send me up to L & D and I stand in a hall for an hour waiting for a bed. They put me in this curtain area I can hear woman in labor all around me, there are 5 of us in ONE ROOM!

I sit there for another hour no one comes. finally a nurse comes and says oh this monitor doesn't work we need to move you. I end up in my own room, with a T.V and a big bed... ahh I can deal with this.

They hook up Elliot to monitors and get a urine sample and then 2 more hours go by. A Dr. with a thick accent comes in. I said how long do I have to wear this monitor and he says FOREVER. I smile thinking he is kidding... he is not kidding.

He goes you have a rare blood disorder in pregnancy. Your blood is clotting too quickly, your kidneys are failing and we need to have this baby tonight. He says I will need a transfusion and wont be awake for my c-section. Nick is like freaking out. I am like wait wait wait... you can tell all this from URINE?

No, he says he has my blood results. I said no one has taken my blood. He argues with me for 5 minutes, shows me the paperwork with my name my birthday my SS#... I show him my arms.. NO BLOOD!

He calls in a nurse they realize someone has been released who REALLY needs to come back.. and someone is also in a crap load of trouble for not reading the wrist band!

So then he says... well this tracing is no good. We need a better tracing. I said I have heard his heartbeat for 2 hours. He said there are no variables, your baby could be brain dead. I look at Nick and he is not sad anymore, he is pissed.

He tells me to get on my side, plays with the monitor for like 30 seconds and says your too fat we will have to get a bio something profile. I was pretty much at my witts end there. I said why don't you go call the woman YOU SENT HOME and send in a nurse to fix my monitor.

FINALLY a woman comes in takes my blood and an hour later I am driving home. What a night! lol
post #2 of 25
Not your DDC, but
post #3 of 25
Oh my, that is kinda scarey! They really need to get their act together!

Everything o.k. then?
post #4 of 25
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well they sent me home so I guess so. the dr. never came back, the nurse released me.
post #5 of 25
: That poor other new mother. I would NOT want this guy as my ob!!

Are you ok?? I'd be very unhappy if I was treated so poorly.
post #6 of 25
UNBELIEVABLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My midwife was saying that when she was in nursing school, that doctors and nurses would use certain tactics to cause women to get c-sections. Like: When checking the fetal monitor while a woman is laboring, they would say things like "hmmmm I am not sure about this, I am going to have to get the doctor in right away" then not give any further information, so the laboring woman would panic and ultimately end up with a c-section!! But your situation is an ENTIRELY different level, that is pure incompetence and really the "forever" response would not be appropriate to say for something so serious!! Prayers for the woman that they let go!
I like your "paranoid" smiley
post #7 of 25
So what would have happened if you hadn't questioned him?

That's so scary. It's so scary that I wouldn't go back, but that's just me.
post #8 of 25
Holy Cow! That reads like a nightmare!

Do you have to deliver at that hospital? Because I would be feeling a bit iffy about their standard of care.
post #9 of 25
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So what would have happened if you hadn't questioned him?

That's so scary. It's so scary that I wouldn't go back, but that's just me.
I would be holding Elliot right now and they would be realizing there mistake is my guess. Yes, i will deliver there, but I will have MY dr. not the doctor on call from Russia. lol
post #10 of 25
The director of that hospital would be getting a STRONGLY worded letter immediately if that happened to me. Holy mackerel!
post #11 of 25
holy freaking crap.
post #12 of 25
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SO glad you caught their mistake! I hope they managed to find the other woman in time.
post #13 of 25
I have no words I pray that dr isn't on call when you go in.
post #14 of 25
Dang. That is just.... dang.

You think things like this happen only in poor, third world countries.

Too sad.

I am glad you have a good dr. for the delivery. And thank GOD you had the presence of mind to question that quack!
post #15 of 25
I would write lots and lots of letters after you and baby are settled in. Just imagine if you were some young uneducated mama, who just trusted him? You'd have had surgry for nothing, combined with the mama in need out there unknowing.

That quack of a dr needs smacked upside the head!

Glad you are ok and didn't listen to him!
post #16 of 25
What a nightmare for you. That was incredible to read.

I really hope that got that other pregnant woman back in time.
post #17 of 25
wow..
what a nightmare. and what horrible manners! i would have kicked that dr in the face.

its scary how mistakes like that are made so often in hospitals. yikes.
post #18 of 25


Please, complain. The powers that be need to know that that happened.
post #19 of 25
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Please, complain. The powers that be need to know that that happened.
my sentiments exactly! :
post #20 of 25
Yikes! That is really messed up! Jeepers. IT sounds like it makes you appreciate your OB even more.
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