i think it is fine to include a preference
but
a lot is going to depend ont he provider (not MW) who does it and what they are most confortable with ... as well as the "issue".
I just want to put something out saying don't be afraid of forcepts ... i know a lot of moms who will go on and on about they'd rather have a vacume than forcepts and the "bad" of forcepts ....... we had a perfect forcept birth. Yes, babies born with forcept help CAN have brusing or red marks or wahtever, so can vacume babies for that matter, but they don't ALWAYS have to -- it comes down to the lay of the baby, the size of the baby, and which way the wind was blowing

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Theo was a samll baby -- 5 pound 9 oz at birth, and we had him with forcepts after 3 hours of pushing ... he didn't have a mark on him. I "pushed" him out while the OB guided with the forcepts and kept him from "floating back" after each push. No yanking, as we were lucky not to be in a situation with heartrate concerns. NO MARKES. no one even believed he was a forcept birth.
But I think it needs to be a call made at the time, by the person doing it.
Note: if you do have forcepts or a vaume -- Eprdual if you are not ina time crunch emergency

Trust me. I had a 4th degree tear to get out a 5 pound 9 oz baby cuz of the forcepts. Epdural is the way to go if you need something like that. You need it, so that you can recover better, and be in better shape immeadtly pp to hold and bond and nurse ....
AImee