the topic of bfing in public came up at my job. i work in a resteraunt. a customer asked for a private room to nurse in. of course we gave her a room for privacy. joking around i told two young childless waitresses that i would just whip it out since i'm not shy. i have no problem with someone wanting to be discreet,though. these girls made comments like, maybe they didnt want to offend anyone. some people dont want their 5 yr old seeing that. i almost blew my stack. i told them seeing what ? someone feeding their baby. it is not offensive for a child to see that. its not a sexual act. maybe that memory will ingrain in the childs head and they will find bfing to be normal to do as an adult. i told them thats the problem with this country,that we sexualize the breast and that they are not just for selling beer and cars. their ignorance made me mad.
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the topic of bfing in public came up at my job. i work in a resteraunt. a customer asked for a private room to nurse in. of course we gave her a room for privacy. joking around i told two young childless waitresses that i would just whip it out since i'm not shy. i have no problem with someone wanting to be discreet,though. these girls made comments like, maybe they didnt want to offend anyone. some people dont want their 5 yr old seeing that. i almost blew my stack. i told them seeing what ? someone feeding their baby. it is not offensive for a child to see that. its not a sexual act. maybe that memory will ingrain in the childs head and they will find bfing to be normal to do as an adult. i told them thats the problem with this country,that we sexualize the breast and that they are not just for selling beer and cars. their ignorance made me mad.
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:Glad you set them straight.
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