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I am a doula in training over here on the other side of the pond, but one of my best friends is over there (in the Loughborough area, if it matters) and she is pregnant with her first child. I am trying to help her educate herself on childbirth in general, and unnecessary interventions and such, but I am not familiar with what things are routine over there.

She is planning on birthing in either a birth center or hospital over there, with the midwives that come with those places. She is in the process of hiring a doula, so that's good as well. Her goal would be to have the most natural and intervention-free birth as is possible, but would also like options if the pain becomes unbearable. She does not want to be induced, or augmented unless it becomes medically necessary (for REAL necessary, not "medically" necessary because a medical professional says she should).

What's standard over there? What's normal? When do they start talking induction? Do they push medicinal pain relief more than it looks like they do from their websites/information pamphlets? Do they do episiotomies? Artificial rupture of membranes? Do they use cervical ripeners? What kind of monitoring is normal?

Really, any information you have would be helpful in helping her navigate the system over there. Tell me anything you think she should know.

Thanks ladies!
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I'd strongly suggest you post this in finding your tribe, in the tribal area you're talking about. They may be able to tell you what's common, even if no birth pros answer.
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Yeah, I posted over in the UK tribal area as well, but have only gotten one response so far. I might have posted it too late in the day for a lot of UK moms to see it though (since I'm in the US) so maybe it'll get more responses starting in the next little bit - I think it's early morning over there now.

Anyways, yeah, I'm trying both places to see what I can shake out. I feel so helpless, and she wishes she was not over there for this, but coming back to the US to give birth does not seem to be an option for them. Heck, I don't even know if she'd be better off over here, it would depend so much on where exactly she was and who she chose for her care provider.

Honestly, I'd be trying to fly over to be there for the birth, except her EDD is only 5 weeks before mine, and she's a first pregnancy and I'm a third, so I wouldn't be surprised if the births are only 2 or 3 weeks apart. (I tend to go right at or just before 40 weeks)
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I just replied to you in Finding Your Tribe. (I am a doula and Certified Birthing From Within mentor and an American ex-pat in the UK! )
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