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Originally Posted by JanetF 
Emotional support is more valuable in every instance.
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I vehemently disagree. I also think it is pretty ballsy to make a statement about what is more valuable in every instance. I can't and won't speak for every woman, but I know myself - and I know that my PTSD was caused by my well meaning "support people" not listening to my expressed needs (I've been in transition for X hours now, I need to go to hospital) and instead deciding for themselves what I needed (you're doing so good, they won't help you at the hospital, stay home). Sheila Kitzinger has writen extensively about women suffering PTSD when they feel they have lost control of their birthings. When we insist on one definition for homebirth, we are limiting women's options and offering them less control over their birthings.
I find it interesting that "doesn't relieve pain entirely" is listed as a disadvantage. I don't understand why partial pain relief is downplayed. My second birth was a transport to the hospital for pPROM. I used hypnosis the entire time on pitocin. However, when I got to transition, I wasn't allowed to move from the bed, and it became difficult to cope. The smallest dosage of Stadol was enough to allow me to rest for 20 min, and I went on to push my baby out in 10 minutes. I know lot's of women complain about this drug, but my experience was that it took the edge off enough to allow me to continue on with my hypnosis. People need to get out of this all or nothing mentality. Gas is something relatively safe that could potentially help some mothers. Not all mothers birth at home "to avoid drugs" - I birth at home to avoid episiotomy and c-section, I birth at home to avoid having my children abused and mistreated at birth, I birth at home so I have freedom of movement, etc. - I wouldn't automatically assume all women have the same motivations for choosing homebirth. One of my favorite books "Come Softly, Sweet Lucina" was writen by Pat Carter - she had 7 painless UCs in the 50s - she also advocated drinking heavily throughout labor!
I vote for giving women more choices in labor
