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Originally Posted by transformed 
and then how do you actually get paid to help bf moms? I dont think i would want to send the mom a bill, kwim?
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I am mostly hospital based, so my salary is from the hospital. I cdo a little private practice and have a hard time charging for it, but its bad to ne that way bc you can burn yourself out fast.
I help way too much on the phone and very rarely does it lead to a consult. Then even when I do a consult, I still give to much follow up. For my consult fee for a two hour consult, I easily spend 10 hours over the next few weeks on follow up via phone/email. I have clients that will call me for parenting advice or any other issue thats really not a bf one, but how do I turn them away? It is very hard. So a two hour consult fee ends up dwindling down to basically pennies per hour when you really look at how much time you have spent w/ someone. I recently discussed this w/ a mental health NP who does private practice and she gave me good advice, that if something is important enough for the person, they will pay for it. I don't expect my hair stylist to do my cut and highlights for free, and the cost of that is probably more than what you charge for a consult, yet people will milk us for what they can get for free. I am definitely giving away to much of myself, but its hard when you are so passionate about something, to just refer to LLL, or worse, back to the MD who we know will probably give bf misinformation a lot of the time.
Becoming an LC is hard work and a long road, its not like a sally struthers mail order course, so I have to constantly remind myself of that. It took a lot of time and a lot of money to get my license, and it takes me away from my family, so I need to be compensated, but that does not make it easier to take the money, I need to get over that.