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BOY! After stumping 3 people who had perfect records for baby gender predictions (and filling our changing table with pink layettes as a result!) we were surprised and shocked when our sweet baby turned out to be a boy! Though we hadn't had an ultrasound, I was utterly convinced it was a girl and just looked down a few minutes after the baby was born to confirm it, and then learned otherwise! Fortunately we hadn't given away all of Levi's hand-me-downs yet and are so thrilled that Levi will be able to grow up with a brother to have adventures with.

The birth was amazing and I feel so blessed to have the prayers and support of friends and family before, during and afterwards. I woke up at 8:50am Wednesday with a contraction and they started getting closer together by 9:15. I called dh Tim, one of my doulas, and my midwife at 9:30 to let them know things were progressing while my mom filled up the birthing pool upstairs overlooking the balcony deck and canyon views. I really didn't want to rush anyone over since I didn't know how long it would be before things really got going, but since each was a ways away, they decided to come as soon as they could, fortunately! Tim got a sub to cover his class and arrived at 10:45, Justine, my midwife and her assistant Christy rolled in at 11:00, my doula, Yvonne, came in at 10 after, and our precious son decided it was officially safe for him to enter the world at 11:25! Levi labored with Tim and I in the pool for a little while and then played with Grandma downstairs until a couple of minutes before the baby arrived, when he came up and watched it all happen with intrigue, greeting the baby with an introduction to his monster trucks. One of the highlights for me was gently pulling him out and onto my chest from the water, seeing how much he looked like Tim and Levi (in more ways than one, as it turned out!). His Auntie Kim and my other doula Regina arrived just after he did, followed by his other grandparents shortly thereafter. God totally hooked us up with great comfort and support, as well as all the roads opening up to our house the night before after the forest fires had cleared up nearby.

Here's a few stats for you:

Jack Timothy Kaleo Klein
Born on his due date (10-24), like Levi, weighing 6#8oz, like Levi, and 19 inches long, like Levi! His hair appears to be a little darker so maybe I had more to do with this than just the 9 month hotel stay, we'll see how he looks as he grows up!:

Jack is named after his paternal granddad (John), who grew up as Jack (variation of John meaning "God is Gracious"), Timothy is for this hunk I know and love who is an awesome Dad and was a perfect support during my labor, and Kaleo is to honor his maternal grandpa's Hawaiian heritage and means "One Voice."

Here's a few pictures, too. I just made a little rough video for youtube, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2dyB4zzOlI0

Thanks again for all your great insight and support, mamas! Jack's off to an awesome start with good nursing skills. He just dropped his cord today which is nice. Having 2 baths already seemed to have helped that along.....

Much Love and Gratitude,

Tim, JJ, Levi, and Jack

"The gate is narrow and the way is hard, that leads to life." Matthew 7:14
post #2 of 21
Congrats, mama!! I was also utterly convinced my DS was a girl - right down to the pink clothes, too! A month later it's still a bit hard to believe, but boys are wonderful (as you know!)! So glad it all went so well and the fires didn't affect your birth!

Welcome, Jack! Enjoy your babymoon!
post #3 of 21
What a beautiful birth story ! Congratulations!!
post #4 of 21
Congrats! And what beautiful pics!! I can't believe how awesome you look right after giving birth.
post #5 of 21
congratulations and welcome Jack!
post #6 of 21
Congrats mama!!! Our Babes share a birthday!!!!

Happy Babymoon!!
post #7 of 21
Congradulations! What a nice birth, and beautiful pictures! Thanks for sharing ;-)
post #8 of 21
Beautiful birth story, mama!!

Congrats and welcome baby Jack!!
post #9 of 21
Congratulations!!
post #10 of 21
Congratulations!!
post #11 of 21
congratulations! he is so tiny and precious!
i have baby gender predictions for a girl but my 11 year old has predicted all of her sisters and her brother right down to hair/eye color and she says boy! we will see soon!
post #12 of 21
Congratulations and welcome baby!
post #13 of 21
Congrats!

post #14 of 21
Congratulations! Welcome LO!
I posted in announcements. Enjoy your babymoon!
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Congratulations
post #16 of 21
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thanks for all of your sweet well-wishes ladies....i admit to putting on a little makeup right before ctxns got bad as last time I had been pushing so hard that all of my blemishes protruded off my face and I wasn't happy with any of the pics....vanity, I know....

well, okay so the birth was awesome, but this postpartum business is just not fun! From the afterpains of cramping everytime DS1 and DS2 nurse, to the stiches, to the engorgement from nursing 2 babes with only 1 that nurses at night (I practically BEG levi to come get milk in the morning as he just decided he wants his own bed this week and now sleeps next door!).....

I'm sure I'm not the only one, but sometimes you just forget about the afterbirth recovery....I probably should've stayed in bed more initially, it's just hard to be isolated from the rest of the world quarantined to my bedroom sometimes....

I have 3 stitches as I tore a bit where I had my episiotomy for my first delivery...grrr....but truly, I know I really don't have a lot to complain about and am grateful for a healthy boy! I think I've finally gotten over the fact that he's not a girl and am really glad to have another son now. it was just a shocker initially, God reminding me that He has His own plans regardless of what I've mapped out for myself!

Happy birthing to those still holding on and praying your births go well....and soon!!
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I think I've finally gotten over the fact that he's not a girl and am really glad to have another son now. it was just a shocker initially, God reminding me that He has His own plans regardless of what I've mapped out for myself!
I find myself still dealing with this to some degree, though a month later it's not quite as big of an issue as it was in the first couple of weeks. It has nothing to do with the baby that's here, either - it's all about the baby that's NOT here. I'm sure that sounds totally crazy to anyone who's not gone through it, though. Anyhow, just wanted to say I think the shock and ensuing feelings are completely valid! I've have yet to find much of anyone to talk to about it because it does seem strange to most. I'm glad you're enjoying the idea of two boys, though! I remember when my 2nd son was born (also a surprise to me, but got over that fairly quickly), walking into a clothing store and realizing I could get them *matching* outfits! I'd never considered having two of the same gender and the perks that come with it.

There's an ad at the top of this page now for a free sample of nursing relief cooling pads... maternalconcepts.com. Might be worth a try! Cabbage leaves and Advil were my friend in the first couple of weeks. The Advil was first for afterpains (I guess it helped 'cause they were noticeable and disturbing without it and quite manageable with it), then for breast pain and inflammation - and the onset of mastitis. Anyhow, I don't like using it, but it helped a ton. And cabbage leaves were wonderfully cooling and soothing! Cold packs all over and warm packs on any blocked ducts also helped, too.

I hope you feel much better soon! Enjoy those two boys! They're gonna be lots of fun together!
post #18 of 21
Congratulations! I love the name.
post #19 of 21
Congratulations!
post #20 of 21
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[QUOTE=HeatherB;9619057] It has nothing to do with the baby that's here, either - it's all about the baby that's NOT here. I'm sure that sounds totally crazy to anyone who's not gone through it, though. Anyhow, just wanted to say I think the shock and ensuing feelings are completely valid! I've have yet to find much of anyone to talk to about it because it does seem strange to most.


yeah, i've been hesitant to share any grief with anyone other than dh as i wouldn't want jack to learn of any disappointment later on in life. since 2 is all we were planning, part of me still feels a loss of a daughter, too, HeatherB, but dh has said all along that we could adopt , it's just i worry about the vaccine requirements, etc., of that. and int'l adoptions are expensive also. i would feel guilty with a domestic one as there are so many childless couples out there deserving parenthood.

something that really helped me connect with jack was using EFT, this accupressure technique that i also used for pain relief during his birth (it worked awesomely then too!). i think my big concern was, as i watch dh and his distance with his mom, that i'll be replaced after the boys marry. dh told me as long as i don't become so overly protective and let the boys do things, they'll have a strong attachment to me. hope he's right. it just seems to me that more often girls are the ones who stay more connected to their moms.

also the name thing....dh insisted we commit to a boy's name because he didn't want to announce a son without a name. i, thinking we were having a girl no doubt, had no problem committing to, heck, herbert if that's what he had wanted! So when we HAD a boy, i felt like i hadn't put forth the thought and exploration i had for our girl's name, and struggled with the simplicity of it, especially with our last name of klein (the double k's, both monosyllabic!). But fortunately, he's named after my father in law and my dh, the second and first greatest men that i know, so i know the legacy behind the names i will never regret despite maybe the aesthetics of it.

this is the only safe place to vent though besides dh because i truly don't want jack to grow up thinking i wished he was a girl! i'm glad i don't feel that way now, but it was rough before EFT set in...
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