I hadn't thought about thisYour question made me realize that I haven't given any thought to what could happen if a caregiver gets weird ideas about caring for the intact penis (thinking they need to "clean" it or something). My older boys were virtually never cared for by anyone but dh and me and my parents (who raised intact sons) so it wasn't an issue. But with my 20 month old I have been working full-time. DH cares for him during the day(we work opposite shifts). We have teenage kids who care for him at times, but of course the boys are intact themselves and the girls know they don't need to mess with his penis. Anyway, once school starts my dh will go to a 4 day/10hour work week - and that means one of our neighbors will need to watch Ryan for about an hour between the time he leaves and when I get home. I hadn't thought to find out if her little boys are circ'd or not, and if see make sure she knows not to get carried away with cleaning Ryan if it becomes necessary.
Thanks for asking this!