I need some help

[MamalovesCadence]

I'm new to mothering.com so forgive me if I’m posting wrong or anything like that. I have a 15 month old daughter who I've decided to stop vaccinating. She’s had all the shots up till now. I’m trying to get educated on all the dirt behind vaccinations. Here’s my main problem I’m in the middle of a divorce and my soon to be ex-husband doesn’t agree with me on wanting to stop the shots. So, if anyone has some easy studied martial on vaccinations or some websites that will be helpful I would be very grateful. I’m looking for easy read stories or information…because my soon to be ex is not too bright and I want to make sure he understands what he is reading.

Thanks for all your help!

[Gitti]

Here is what I would do: I would tell him I've changed my mind about the whole vaccine issue and I am going to continue to vaccinate on schedule.

This might eliminate the whole issue. Because you might be forced to vaccinate your child via court if he insists on it. I simply would not take that chance. And I would keep completely mum about it from all family members as well.

[MamalovesCadence]

so tell him nevermind about not wanting to do it and then just not do it?
ek, what if that back fires and then he uses that against me? I think if I can just get him to read about it he'll understand and agree with me, i just have to find stuff he'll totally understand.

[Gitti]

I can only tell you what dd did when she got a divorce. She said she changed her mind and it was never discussed again. Of course my grandson did not get any vaccines.

His dad never knew that his so was no longer vaccinated until my grandson told him when he was about 9 yrs old. And then his dad would have never vaccinated him because he knew his son would absolutely throw a fit and never go near him again. So, that was it!

It worked for us.

Have you discussed it a lot with the child's father?

[MamalovesCadence]

I haven't discussed it with him much, I talked to him a bit about it today and he told me to print out info for him and he would read it. So I think for right now I'm just going to try to teach him about it.

[Gitti]

I am just saying, it could backfire.

If you do give him any info and he says NO WAY, I WANT MY CHILD VACCINATED, be sure you go along with him. He could use it against you otherwise. JMO.

http://www.childbirthsolutions.com/a...cine/index.php


http://www.ivanfraser.com/articles/h...ccination.html

[MamalovesCadence]

You're right it could back fire. But it could back fire either way. I think I'm going to pray about it and try to be as honest as I can. Thanks for your help. I really do appreciate it and thanks for the links! )

[MamalovesCadence]

I ment for that to be a happy smile face..sorry I'm new at this! LOL!

[Gitti]

to the forum btw.

[rmzbm]

Of course...you know him best. Some men are reasonable. I wish you best of luck in whatever you decide! And, yes, welcome!

[MamalovesCadence]

Thanks for the welcome!

[MamalovesCadence]

Thanks for the welcome... can I ask a stupid question..lol I see people posting DH everywhere...what does that mean?

[lauradbg]

Darling Husband
Darling Daughter
Darling Son
Darling Partner

I think you can go to FAQs and get the rest.

[MamalovesCadence]

lol, ok thanks and I'll go check out the rest!

[Emmeline II]

Read my siggy:.

[MamalovesCadence]

thanks

[Gitti]

Darling husband? And here I thought it meant Darn Husband.

[lauradbg]

It depends. It can be situational...