I consistently measured big by about 2 cm (maybe even three, I would have to look at my records again). My midwife (a CNM within an ob practice, bound by their rules) kept saying "this is going to be a big baby." Well, I went past my due date (which had been moved up by ten days due to an early ultrasound) and they did an U/S to check "if there is enough fluid". My baby measured 9lbs10oz on the U/S and my AFI was 25 (when I researched this later I read that a "normal" AFI was between 12 and 24) so I had mild polyhydraminos. The midwife told me to have a c-section, and when I went in to consult with a doctor (I was upset and flabbergasted) I was told that they had most likely missed GD (I later found out that my GTT was a 67, so not even close) based up on the polyhydraminos and the LGA baby. Well, I let them coerce me into a c-section based upon fears of injury during a SD event. I later found that ACOG does not support c-section for fetal macrosomia. It also has been suggested by someone on the ICAN list that I had reactive hypoglycemia based upon my GTT (which makes sense, as I have hypoglycemic reactions sometimes, and I am a total sugar addict and caffeine addict). Someone on here had told me to cut out sugar, and I later found out that my AFI had dropped to 21 (we had another BPP because we did delay the c-section to the following week, hoping that DD would come out before) possibly from cutting out the refined sugar. Well, I ended up with a perfectly healthy 9lb8.5oz baby girl, who had no blood sugar issues after being born (via a c-section).
Measuring large does not mean that she has polyhydraminos, it could be based upon the baby's position, or it could be just be a large baby. Even if she does have polyhydraminos, if it is a mild case, it may not mean an unhealthy baby either. Sometimes it just happens.
Is her midwife a homebirth midwife or is she birthing in the hospital? She could have an U/S to see what is going on, but that could lead to an unnecessary c-section, depending on her midwife. If she isn't careful about sugar, I would make sure she is cutting that out (I ate a LOT of icecream, and after the first trimester I also allowed myself to have a Mt. Dew, for a while, I was having one per day, I kept within the caffeine requirements, but I definitely think that too much sugar is one of the many factors that led to my unnecessary c-section.)
ETA: Do big babies run in your family? What was your DD's birth weight? I was my mom's biggest baby at 7lbs, but she smoked throughout all three of her pregnancies, and was restricted to a 15 lb weight gain by her doctors. I had cousins that were 9 and 10 pounders though, so big babies run in my family.