Leave the hospital talking about the next one ..... 
We had said we were done .... well done being pregant, we have always said we'd adopt after this ....... we know our family is not done ........
but we are litteraly still at the hosptial and Scott is wroking on the dates for us to TTC again
" well if we are going to do this again, we should not wait as long this time as we did last time" (we waited "a long time" the boys are 23 months apart) "maybe next year we should be thinking of an other birth"
driving home, 45 minute drive, that is what we talkeds abourt -- if we should TTC again, getting 3rd boy vs a girl, when to TTC, ..... if we do TTC again the next two will be closer together than these two .. so like 3 under 4
: ....................
We are elated to have Chalres, a best freind for Theo and another hunting buddy for Scott ... but we do both 1. know our family is not done and 2 want a girl at some point too ............
------------------------- Scott's main concern has always been his age - 41 now -- and mine to a lessor extent -- 35 now ------------------------
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Scott really wants a girl, i didn't realize. Course there is no promise if we get pregant again we'd get a girl, and since i doubt we will have more than 3 (or 4 if we'd adopt a sib set) .. not so sure i want to risk a 3rd boy pregancy in place of adopting a girl .. yk?????
but this birth was so much better -- I do think i could do it again (this birth, not Theo's birth) .............
I know we are nuts.
Aimee
We had said we were done .... well done being pregant, we have always said we'd adopt after this ....... we know our family is not done ........
but we are litteraly still at the hosptial and Scott is wroking on the dates for us to TTC again
" well if we are going to do this again, we should not wait as long this time as we did last time" (we waited "a long time" the boys are 23 months apart) "maybe next year we should be thinking of an other birth"driving home, 45 minute drive, that is what we talkeds abourt -- if we should TTC again, getting 3rd boy vs a girl, when to TTC, ..... if we do TTC again the next two will be closer together than these two .. so like 3 under 4
: ....................We are elated to have Chalres, a best freind for Theo and another hunting buddy for Scott ... but we do both 1. know our family is not done and 2 want a girl at some point too ............
------------------------- Scott's main concern has always been his age - 41 now -- and mine to a lessor extent -- 35 now ------------------------
: : :Scott really wants a girl, i didn't realize. Course there is no promise if we get pregant again we'd get a girl, and since i doubt we will have more than 3 (or 4 if we'd adopt a sib set) .. not so sure i want to risk a 3rd boy pregancy in place of adopting a girl .. yk?????
but this birth was so much better -- I do think i could do it again (this birth, not Theo's birth) .............
I know we are nuts.
Aimee
